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What should i do, i have a saudi arabian boyfriend who is to possessive?

  • i am 14 years old and a muslim girl who lives in england, currently i have a 15 year old saudi arabian boyfriend, he says he loves me hes kissed me lots of times always hugging me, always buying me stuff especially food. but he wants to keep our love secret? he just moved to england from saudi arabia 1year ago. i have not been with him for long and he is asking for sex? i said no, and he said he loves me very much, since then he arranges dates but never shows up, he always apologizes, the other day he tried to kiss me and i backed off, and he started apologizing and saying how much he loves me, since that day we haven't talked much, he is possesive he gets jelous over me and my gay friend who is a boy and hates it when i go to his house,what should i do? someone help me!

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    you two are still babies.. Why do you think the legal age for everything is 21? YOu both are not mature enough to even begin to think about sexual relations.. If you want to partake in adult activities, are you ready to be a mother? To take care of a child for the rest of your life?... You are still a child and as such, dont think about the consequence of your actions.. He is a teen and is just going into his puberty and his hormones are raging.. He is just trying to "sew his wild oats" as per say.. To experiment with his feelings.. He and you both are not ready for this.. As a muslim.. he is still too young to even understand the repercussions of his faith either. In Islam a man and a woman dont date or have relations for sport, or fun, or just for puppy love.... Its a serious matter and you only seek out a partner for life, for marriage.. You dont "date" as for testing the waters before jumping in.. .. Its not like getting a toy and deciding you dont like, and tossing it back.. And at 15 he is way too young to decide that you at 14 wil be his future wife.. so best to end it now before he or you both do something you will regret later.. at your ages, you just dont have enough life experiences under your belt to think clearly and logically as an adult.. Yes we adults were teens once, we were fearless and didnt care and took things lightly.. Only now as parents do we realize our faults and stupid mistakes.. Please grow up hun and just get on with your life.. Go to school, study, grow, learn.. Then when the time is correct, you can seek a good man... but not now..

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forget about him and move on....you don't need a boyfriend right now...you're 14. wait until you're a bit older and then get married.

Alhamdulilah

Dump him

MAN

First off if you are Muslim you should know it is haraam to date. Secondly, there is no guarntee that a long distance relationship will last. Third, a Saudi man cannot marry a non-Saudi woman without permission from the Saudi Government and he has to be 35 or older to marry outside the Kingdom and he has to write a letter stating why he won't marry a "good Saudi woman". Break it off with him, tell your parents, and repent to Allah (Subhanna wa Ta'ala) for your sins. Technically you shouldn't be around non-mahram men anyway since you've gotten your period.

tell his devout muslim parents what hes doing, and watch him get his *** kicked by abo possesive. As for the gay friend, stop seeing him as your a muslim girl- hes gay and gay is gay OR do what he says

We (males) are mostly hypocritical liars...tell him to take you to his mum if he is really a man.

trancinguy

Looks like a typical Saudi. Saudi men are very bad indeed. they are abusive, disgusting and they think all western girls are whores. Dump his *** and never be sorry, you are better off without him. .

2nd account

He is Muslim, he doesn't respect you or he wouldn't ask for sex. Drop him and find a new boy friend.

momw

Well he is a muslim, If you dont give him what you want he will marry someone who is 5

I h8 religion

forget about him before he break your heart. you will be ok you will find the right man when you get older.

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