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How is life in Israel?

How would life be for me in Israel?

  • I'm half jewish on my moms side and I really hate it here in America. I don't speak much hebrew, I can read some of it but don't understand it. I had a bar mitzvah and consider myself jewish for the most part. I indirectly have a lot of money through my family. I'm in college now so if I graduated business management program how is the job opportunities there? What about the army there? I wouldn't mind joining except I have a mild heart condition so idk if that would disqualify me or not. I really hate all the dirty looks people here in America give me. Like I went to the store today and I was in the checkout line and the cashier was really nice and talkative to the other two customers in front of me. It was my turn to check out so I put my stuff up on the treadmill thing where it bring they stuff to the register and anyways I said "Hi how's it going?" and she didn't say anything back, she just rang my stuff up and told me how much it was. I gave her the money and she gave me my change and that was it. Normally they greet everyone and all that like or whatever but she seemed pretty pissed that I was there. I don't think I know her so idk what the problem was. She ended up smiling and talking to the guy behind me. It made me feel really bad because that's how most people have been in my life to me and I have NO idea why. I try to look my best when I'm out, I brush my hair and put on decent clothing and I always take a shower, brush my teeth, put on deodorant, take a breath mint if I know I'll be talking to people, and I don't think I look bad. I really hate it so much because it happened in school and just about everywhere else. I've been ignoring it lately but it seems to have got to me today. I hate it here, idk why everyone is so cold to me. I swear I haven't done anything out of the ordinary. Maybe it's my face? Maybe because I have black hair and brown eyes? I have no idea what it could be. I dressed normal today. Often I dress kind of dark like "emo/goth" style because I'm never happy much. Uhg... If moving doesn't help idk what will. I so wish to be a part of something. I wish I could go somewhere and be accepted and not looked down upon for unknown reasons. Is it hell like this everywhere in the world? Is it just me or what?

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    C'mon over! We're waiting for you. Israel is made up of All kinds of people from all over the world with all kinds of differentt tastes and customs and looks. people here will go out of their way to try and help you make it. Call me when you get here

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If you are a right wing Jewish fundamentalist fanatic you will fit it fine these days.

Marian

You have a problem. Consult some psychic and ask his advice. Running away to Israel or anywhere else will not solve it. You are the one who will. All you need is some guidance

DAN DAN

I think it's just you. Big deal, so some people didn't respond to you. Israelis, I guess, will respond to you. idk if they will be like really nice to you. But they obviously won't look down upon you. Unless maybe if you'll look like a Goth/emo, it's not that common fashion among Israelis. But anyway, you're very welcomed to make your home in Israel.

omg

Run Run to Israel dude, they're very familiar with people "looking down at them" they'll understand your situation. I mean that's the reason for creating Israel in the first place, right?

I'm from Palestine.

Well, half Jewish or not, it really won't make a difference with the areas of Israel you'll be likely to move to. I doubt you'd move into an Orthodox neighborhood, and into a secular one, so that's not an issue there. However, the mom's side thing does help with being recognized Jewish by them, which can solve some religiously linked issues later. Many move to Israel without a lick of Hebrew, but pick it up. I'd start relearning it now, so you'll have an easier time learning it later, probably in an Ulpan (place to learn it). Job opportunities are pretty average. It's not overflowing with opportunity, but it's actually better than the US and most of the world at the current moment. If you are under 27 (which you prob. are), you will have to serve, irregardless of whether you are male or female. I really can't explain why you aren't finding happiness in the US. Really, as an American, I can't tell. I don't have black hair, but a lot of my family does, and we all have brown eyes, and I don't recall any issues. What I can say is that, provided what you have given me, that Israelis aren't going to treat you badly. I'd dare say that Israelis are much more talkative and outgoing than the average American, so you might like it better. However, I think that you really need to weigh your options. I'd visit Israel first, and see if it's a place you can get used too. If so, and if you really dislike your life in the US, then I'd make Aliyah. However, based on what you write, I have no sure way to say that you would find it preferable.

Dean

bleh, ya im kinda emo too and no its not about how u look, lol maybe your just not so friendly towards ppl or aren't so social. I guess i kinda have green eyes and black hair too lol but nobody hates me cuz of that. Just put on a big smile and Be happy Btw Cashiers here are @sshooles, haha but i dont think they were never rude to me, they act nice towards me although they prob weren't to the person in front of me Mainly cuz smiling does wonders ;)) shalom

Emo Beaver ***

It's just you Israhell was founded on injustice and blood and in time it will fall agaib

jysn_kay

Anytime "everyone" is treating you a certain way, it often has something to do with you and not them. I don't say this to be mean, I just think you may be going through a rough patch, and often times we project an air about us that makes us unapproachable - sort of a defense mechanism. Perhaps some counseling would be helpful. US is very wide and diverse. If you are looking for a change you may be able to find it within. Please remember Israel is involved in a 60 year occupation and by moving to Israel you would be supporting this. Would moving some place that participates in the humiliation and violent repression of another people really make you feel better? If it is being around Jews that interests you, there are many right here in the US, and a lot of great Jewish organizations and communities that you could seek out. Whatever you decide, good luck to you!

black sheep

yep, we're friendlier here compared to the US and Canada :) my impression that it won't be hard for you find friends here. as about living and working in israel - the economy sucks, jobs are hard to find, the taxes are killing, the army is dangerous... if you can live with all that to be with nicer people, then sure, make an aliyah... you'd be very welcome. but it's really hard for people who just finished their edu. speaking from experience here. btw, you'll sure receive some trolling answers from pro-palestinians, don't pay attention, it's their way to communicate.

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