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Should i pick volleyball or dancing?

  • I've been dancing for 12 years and i'm really flexable. My instructor wrote me a recommendation letter so i could dance in an advanced group. Only one person every 2 years gets to go. I also love playing volleyball. I play on an advanced, elite, year-round team and i'm my team's captin. I'm really good and i want to play in collage. My mom says i have to pick one because they both cost alot to play. If i don't take the dance spot, a girl i hate will get the spot. but if i stop playing volleyball, another girl i hate will take my place as captin. What should i pick?!?

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    what i usually do in decisions like this is write out a list of the good things that will come out of picking dance and then a list for volleyball. then write a list of the bad things. usual your heart will help you write out more good things on the one you truly want to do and bad things on the one you wouldn't mind giving up. :) good luck! think about which one you would enjoy more in the long run.

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i can totally relate to you because i've been dancing my whole life, my mom owned a studio so i grew up dancing litterally since i was born... and then on the flip side i also have played volleyball for three years and soon to be four and i love it. in your situation it seems like dancing is what you really love to do, i mean i cant tell you which one you'd rather do, but its seems to me like volleyball is a choice only cause you dont want that girl you hate to get captain, if you didnt love dancing you would have put 12 years into it, dancing is a one time chance, trust me i know cause i lost mine, you can do volleyball anytime, and highschool eventually comes to an end, dancing you can do for a long time and you dont want to miss your chance...whichh ever one you choose, that girl that took your spot in the other wont matter cause you picked what made you happy. she might think she won by taking your spot, but really you won by being mature and choosing what made you happiest, not just what you thought would get back at whoever it is you hate. good luck

spongebobfan#1

Yeah. Follow your heart. If I were you, I would pick volleyball, just because I love it more than anything in the entire world! But then, you've been dancing for EVER. So your obviously dedicated. All I can say is, don't let these girls you don't like influence your decision. Because they don't mean a thing. When you think of the other one being captain, or the other girl having that spot, your spot, just remember, the only reason they got it, was because your coach had to settle for Second best. and that if you were there, she'd still be the lower rank. ;) hope i helped a little.

Taylor

Well I had the same problem w/ gymnastics & volleyball :*( . Personally I picked gymnastics (dancing in ur case) I've been doing it since I was 2. But then I never made the next level some butthead took my place cuz her mom fixed it. (I'm serious) But I would have chosen gymastics. :) Hope i helped. I know how tuff it is... :/ - iTeal

iTeal

try to imagine your mom made you dance- would you be disappointed? now do it for volleyball. i read an answer of yours and you played on Mizuno M1 team! thats amazing! i also play JO volleyball in that area and i wish i tried out for your team! but i looked into after tryouts. silly me.

amandaa

I play for a elite club team, so of course i'd choose that.. and dancing is blah :3 But if you really like dancing it and you've been doing it for 12 years, then maybe choose the dancing because you've put more effort into it. Sorry If this is a bad answer.

B

You shouldn't care about those girls first of all. And I would pick dance because you can play volleyball in school if you have a team, or join a less expensive club. When you think about you go far in dance than volleyball

liljohnae

volleyball can get you a scholarship dance cant

Pissed @ Global Warming

Follow yur heart and wat u want to be. dont worry about those girls karma will come back around.... u shouldnt b askig us u should be asking yur heart...........

Princess Lex

I would pick volleyball. Im not just saying that because i play volleyball. It sounds like you are really good. And if you dont do the dance thing and you deciede you wish you had you can probably get another good spot if you are really good. If you choose dance you mite not get that spot as captian again in volleyball because if you quit and want to play again you wont be given back the spot as captian (most likely) But if you do dance again there are tons of places you could go to for advanced classes. I guess i am trying to say that being the volleyball captian is a bigger honor than being able to move up in dance. And it wouldnt be setting a good example for your team if you just quit. Since u havent done the dance thing yet it wouldnt be as bad. Thats just my opinion but I hope it helped.

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