How can I make friends in Volleyball camp? (Read Description)?
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I'm going to this volleyball camp for 4 days. Today, at 9:00am, will be the 3rd day. I played well the first day, but the second day I was off my game because i'm so sore. Yesturday, the 2nd day when I was sore, I lost the game nukeum and my team got out. Right after I lost the game this girl went over to one of my team members for playing nukeum and whispered in her ear while looking at me. I almost cried right there. I cried a little when I got home. Now, since that happened, I don 't even want to go to volleyball camp anymore. Was she really talking about me? When we have to buddy-up I have to buddy-up with the coach because no one is usually my partner. Why can I have a fairly easier time making friends in school but I can't make any at volleyball camp? How can I make friends at volleyball camp? I'm desperate, and sad. I feel like an outcast. I feel like everybody is starring at me like i'm some kind of joke. Any and all answers are appreciated. God Bless <3
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Answer:
you just have to be more confident...other players sense your insecurity and because you believe as though you are an outcast, they think so too. its a mind set that you have to get your self into. if you believe in yourself and you abilities, others will too. i think you might be intimidated because there are other girl just as good, or maybe better than you and you may not be used to it, but shake it off. dont be sad and be confident, go out of your comfort zone and talk to people.. others like it when people go out of their way to talk to someone! hope i helped =D and good luck!
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Other answers
hey i am the same way the best way to make a friend is to just be your self. for example: you could introduce yourself and try to find things in common with that other person (whitch is like me) when i waz new at school i went up to this girl maya and i waz all preppy and happy and i told her my name an dshe thought that i was a freak but now we are the best of friends and we even make fun of th way i introduced my self. but just be yourself :)
Don't focus on them, focus on doing your best and working hard! Prove them wrong, don't worry about what they think as long as you know your trying. i used to be like that too, worrying about making my group lose in scrimmaging if i mess up, but now, i just focus on doing my best and now that i stopped worrying and thinking about doing everything perfectly, i improved.
Jellllay
Well every one makes mistakes. They probably were... but, I think that you should just have a good attitude, and compliment them when they make a good hit or serve ( etc) you should ask a girl to be your parnter the day, or something, and start a conversation saying.." Are you going to Volley in the fall?" something like that!
♥Brooke♥
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