WHY DO SO MANY GIRLS SEEM TO LIKE PARTY BOYS?

Because most women only strife to be popular early in life, and the quickest way to become popular is to be with the even more popular, yes, the retarded. On the bright side most relationships end abruptly, the downside? does anyone want to bend over and pick up the trash,yes, only the nice guys.

Smarter girls will pick dependable guys. Guys that make fools of themselves with drink will remain that way for a good part of their lives. They will get low paying jobs and the girls that hitch themselves to these losers will live lives of quiet desperation. But the girls that marry dependable blokes will have easier lives.

stfu/

No sensible or nice ladies would like one of those frat douches or those party boys who are born to attend parties and do nothing else. Only trashy and attention seekers like those losers.

sorry, but you seem to have a high oppinion of yourself to think you're so much better then a "traddie". perhaps women like those types of guys because some of the reasons you've just said. they don't take themselves seriously. they are fun. they have a good sense of humour - or the "life of the party" as you put it. whats wrong with a guy that doesn't think he's better then everyone because he lays bricks instead of taking photo's? most of the men that have a trade have goals, and actually make good money - i don't know where you're getting your opinion from. based on what you've said, the reason girls aren't going for you has nothing to do with what you do sunshine, it's to do with your personality. you're no better then anyone out there because you're artsy mate.

Firstly I'm guessing your young and the girls you like are mostly young, so of course they aren't looking for a guy to settle down with, the party guy is just a person to have sex and a good time with, but his not a suitable partner. The problem with ''nice'' guys is that alot of them get boring, because its the same routine and a young girl doesn't want her life already laid out, so the girls end up leaving, cheating or if they have been together for years she ends up taking pills. If you have balls you'll do fine.

My boyfriend and I discuss this issue all the time. The thing is that girls go through this unusual pattern when it comes to relationships. When they are teenager they'll go out with the first guy who asks them out. Why? Because they just want to boost their status in high school. Then when they go in their early 20s they only fall for problem guys...here problem guys are those you are talking about;party guys. Those guys are not easy to reach. But for some reason the girls like the idea of chasing them because of the reverse psychology. They want what they cant have. It gives them thrill of chasing, being depressed and winning. And then when they go in their 30s they feel that its time to settle down. Thats when they try to get hold of reliable guys. Do girls like art? Umm, I cant tell that. But I know that I do not like art kids. Don't get offended. Most art kids I saw thought they were jack of all trades, the world sucked and their way was the only way to save the humanity. But the truth was that they cared only for themselves. I am talking about those who went to my school. I cannot take an art major seriously, for I know his future is dull because people are losing homes and thus his paintings wont be bought to decorate their walls. My man is not a party guy, but what really attracted me to him was the fact that he was future oriented. Nope, he doesn't have money, but he is ambitious and I know in the end, thats what will get us to where we want to reach.

from what i know all girls are looking for smart, dependable guys. Every girl is looking for security and someone they can depend on. People are attracted to attractive people and that includes the jerks. If a guy is hot or sociable most girls don't care if he's a drunk or a womanizer. Most find out they made a mistake or could've chosen a better man. Women are very emotional beings and most fall in love with any guy that sweeps them off their feet and not the quiet science geek in the corner that can offer security. I hope you get what Im trying to say