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What's the best solution to handle immature roommates?

• I have 3 roommates that I thought were okay at one point...until they invited some guy over. I know who the guy is since he had classes with me last quarter. Weeks ago, he was trying to talk to me about actually living with us and I told him that I wouldn't because of the past experience I had and witnessed (I've been in college for a year, and one of them started last quarter and the other 2 started this quarter). When the guy decided to stay for the night since it was really late and since he lived almost 2 hours away, I didn't care much. The next day, that's when he started to stay and live with us. Doing that, I text one of my roommates and said, "Dude, is he planning on staying with us or something?? If so, I'm not involved in this". My roommate told me, "I don't know, but if he is, I'm sure it's okay", then I told him, "Dude, I'm just trying to find out because I don't want any of you guys to get in trouble". After that, my roommate told me that if the guy is staying, he's positive the the RA is probably cool about it. Him telling me that, I take it that he didn't get the full idea on what I was trying to get at. So, now this guy has been staying with us for 3 weeks straight now, and I talked to the RD about it. She was nice to help me and gave me some options like: changing rooms, scheduling a room check (they always have the kitchen and den really messy), or I can allow the RD to have the RA let them know about them having someone staying with him when they shouldn't. I was thinking about moving to another room anyway, but at the same time, I'm still trying to choose which option is best for me. What do you guys think I should do?? It sucks having roommates letting someone stay over, and it's stupid when that person brings out the immaturity out of your roommates, showing you how they truly are.

• Answer:

  Too easy...if you feel uncomfortable..then move out. Let your roommates deal with the guy..sooner or later he's gonna get annoying and gonna have to move out...then the roommates will be missing 2 people they were cool with..but now they're not.