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• i was dating a guy since aug'07. i am 21 and he is 24. we really loved each other. n we both are sikh. we had a good relationship, n also were physically involved, n loved each other deeply.in around dec'07, he started avoiding me a lil. on constant asking, he said he doesnt wana continue at all with me.i was dumbstruck. when i kept on asking him the reasons for it, finally he told me, his parents r looking for a girl for him, n he doesnt wanted to hurt me, n becos of some family problems, his parents are totally anti-love marriage (reason being, one of his 1st cousin was recently murdered by his wife, after 6 mnths of their love marriage), and he can-not go against his family. one thing was sure, he can never have a love marriage, and also , he was not gettin married, he was jus alerting me, that since we gettin very serious day by day, its better if we end it, cos at the end of the day, i'l be the one hurt, n he dint want that !! so then, after telling me all this, he told me, thathe still loves me to bitts, but te only reason he ws avoiding me n all was he ***** see me hurt in the long run... then he left everythn on me saying, he wants a relationship wid me, but he is not sure if we can get into long term relationship... 99% chances were NO, he said if i am okay wit all this, n want to continue, we cud..... i finally decided to give it in ...for as long as we cud be together, cos another thing for sure was, he wudnt get married before 2010, so , i thort, we myt b able to change things by then. so, we got bak to normal. but the normal here wasnt so normal, he still loved me, but, he stopped showing me so much of it, he stopped msgn me sayin he loves me, we used to meet, but a lil less than before, i cud see he used to get a lil un-comfortable s well, n one thing he always had in mind was, we cud neve get married. he used to feel utter bad about it..but, things were moving on like that ...i always tried to tell him, that if we try things myt change...but he had it in mind that his parents will now never agree for a love marriage, n he can never go against his family. Anyways , things were moving on. One day, i dun knw wht struck me, sm hell got on me, n i asked him if he's always loved me for lust... n w/o any objections on that, he said yes to me.a very sweet yes. That moment i got reall pissed, n texted him bak, with a terrible msg n said i just dont want to continue at all... it was lyk the shock of my life...n i texted him a reall bad looking msg..but , he did not say a work on that.. i kept on thinkin bou it for 2 days,n then realised, that maybe he said yes to me, assuming that this ways i'l end terms wid him n feel better....than he ending terms. ! so..this thort made me feel a lil better again..n somehow we got bak to talking.. but things were agn not so comfortable, he kept on avoiding me a lil, i was always upset. i fine day i msgd him saying, that its high tym we need to decide, n i said i leave everythn on u today, if u want to continue lets start all over agn for good..n if u want to end it, lets do it ryt away. i added i trust u n ur decisions, n wteva u say today wud be my command. He replied bak saying he respects me n my feelings bt he cannot give in long term committment , but if den also i wana continue, he's all dere for me. I replied back saying being wid u is a gamble for me, n i dun mind playing it all my life even thou i knw m the only risk taker in the game, n i said bt u hv to play it fair, u cnt loo uncomfortable all the tym, n u cant avoid me so much, i said if u wana play it fair then teme. He replied bak saying..lets leave it den, he cant continue tht ways, it was really awesome being wid u, n keep in touch ..n all tht !!!! ..i cried n weeped ...finally i thort tht is in our destiny. previusly i had also deleted him from my orkut, wen added him bak tht tym saying tht am adding u jus to retain an old frnd, he neither did add me nor rejected me for lyk 5 days...n den rejected my frnds approval on the 5th day. also, immediately the next day, he changed his relationship status to committed on orkut,!now, wt i dun knw is, shud i really really come over him? though its bin 6-7 days now... but i still feel he's doing all this cos he loves me, n i dun wana leave my love. M sure, hes not committed anywhr,its jus tht he's trying to convey tht msg to me, so tht i abuse n forget him. He did make it a point n asked his best frnd to call me up, jus to chck out how i am.if he doesnt have anythin gfor me,y did he reject my equest after 5 days?n why is he asking his frnd to call me.Frnds u knw the story now, teme, did he ever loved me ?does he still love me ? shall i forget him (i cant) ,or shall i get in touch wid him? Wht do u guys think ?why do boys behave like in a situation like this ?? please people ….think right , think with heart …. N teme …wht u feel bout it ?? n wht shud I do .? this situation is really killing !!. thanks to all of u !

• Answer:

  he's trying, because he loves you , to do the best thing for you. But its very hard for him to stick to because it hurts. If he is sure his family would never consider you as a potential wife then at least he is being a gentleman to you. If you told your family that you had slept with him wouldnt they make him marry you? would that make his family disown him, or yours disown you? Is there no way you could hide your love from his parents and get them to consider you as the girl to marry him to? If not, then you must move on.