How do I get my boyfriend to be more interested in me?

How do I get my boyfriend back?

• Me and my boyfriend have been having problems in our relationship my problem is he has a bad attitude because he smokes pot and when he has no pot he has a bad attitude and he always gets mad and fustrated which causes me to get mad and then we fight. What makes it worse is that his brother who he hasnt seen in like 15 years came back into my boyfriends life and his brothers mother doesnt like me so she is trying to keep him and I apart. I dont like her and she doesnt like me. My boyfriend keeps telling me loves me and all this other stuff my boyfriend is 30 years old he has a right to make his own choice but he saids he doesnt want to cause any problems to his brothers mother since he lives with her when my boyfriend did live with me until these people came back into his life. These people have causes problems for us because I noticed my boyfriend has turned into this different person he wasnt like this before basically a bad person where now he wants to be a loser like the rest of this family if they cared about him so much why did they lose contact with him for 15 years? Why now did they want to come back into his life? I just want my boyfriend back and alot of it has to do with my attitude as well I am cancer sign so I get really moody and cranky alot. I am also jealous of any woman he talks to so it has caused a lot of problems in our relationship. I been sitting here crying for 6 days barely eatting cause I do realize I want him back in my life he talked to my mother on the phone and my mom asked him for me is it really over with us he said he didnt know right now he said what pushed him away is my jealousy and my attitude how do I change this attitude? How do I win my man back away from his family?

• Answer:

  Hi honey...............looks like you have a issue not just with your BF You have to talk it out with him before you start fighting.... When ur in love...you should be sure your there for him..... By fighting nothing is gonna solve.... 1) Get some help with counselor with regards to his pot issue!!!! (IMP) 2) Call & talk to your BF and try to stay clam and have a new start to your relation. 3) Invite his family over for lunch or something (just be good) 4) Try to spend some good quality time...be polite and no fights plz