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Whats the best way and fastest way to get a Paternity Test? And what should i do about her?

• Whats the best way and fastest way to get a Paternity Test? I've been with my girlfriend since Feb 2, 2005 we have been together for two years. We had a very rocky summer of 2006 and i push her away from me and she's been asking me to give her attention but i messed up and ignored her but just for the record her and i were like rabbits every nite. i stop using condoms after a year with her. but on november of 2006 we had a big fight and things were said i broke up with her but that same night we got back together that month was probably the most we did it on a month base...the next day a old family friend comes around and she breaks down and crys and he takes advantage of her they didnt use a condom but she stop him about 15 mins into it...now its been three months she cant get ahold of him i just found out everyhing yesturday which was Valintines Day im telling you PAINFULL VERY PAINFULL but im still here and i want to be part of this experience but i need to know if im the father she 13 weeks...

• Answer:

  If you want to know from who the baby is from, she should go see a doctor. A DNA test will tell from which parent the baby is. A blood test from the baby can also work but I think the futur baby should born first. Ask a specialist to be sure. If you are the father of the baby, you should take the responsability. On the other hand, wether you like your ex or not is your decision. You can go back with her if you have feelings. But you should do your job as a father and help your baby throughout his life and also financially. good luck