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How to tell someone you are not interested?

How can someone that is shy and scared show feelings or tell someone that they are interested in them?

  • I have been burned bad in the past by men, and now I am to shy to go up to them and talk to them. They don't come up to me either, all of my friends just tell me that my looks intimidate them.

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    First face that fact that you might get burned again and when you have someone in mind (I'm guessing you all ready do), that you think is worth the risk of shedding some tears over if it doesn't work out, then you're ready to make your move. Be where that person is when you can, not stalky, but if he's in some sport or club, go to the games or go to a club meeting, etc. Give him an opportunity to notice you. Ask for help with some topic if you share a class, that sort of thing.

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Cause your friends are probably right! And if you want to get to know someone for God's sake don't try and meet them in a club or in bar. That's just trashy!

Love_is_there

I am like that too. It is really hard could somebody answer this!!!???

Anonymous

change your looks and be more friendly instead of intimadating, smile more especially around the person you're interested. show them you care and you pay attention to them. asking for help from someone you want to talk to is always a good start.

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