What did you do to get over a break-up?

What can I do to help get my friend through this breakup?

• She really uses me as someone to vent to, which is fine, I know it's good to have someone in your life like that, but she also is very bitter toward me along with one of her other best friends as we both have had one of those Boy Meets World kinda lives, and are married to or marrying our highschool sweethearts. Obviously it would be really hard to be around people who have great relationships that are working out, but I still just don't know what to do when she honestly gets mad at me over it. I'm trying just to be more of a listener, as I honestly don't know what to say to make things at all better. Am I doing the right thing just letting her just vent and say whatever for now? Am I bet to keep out of this as much as possible? Has anyone else been made to feel like they're the bad guy over nothing??

• Answer:

  It's good that you let her vent for a while but as her friend you should let her know in the nicest possible way that there is no reason that she should be upset with you.Tell her that you are her friend and you will be there for her but you will not feel guilty for having a good relationship with your husband. If she's really your friend she will understand where your coming from.