Met a guy in my past, we reconnected, but he's busy and isn't making time?
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So, I met a guy 2 years ago, he was everything I wanted in a mate, but that went cold after he was so busy to the point where I wasn't important and I went my way and he went his way. Now, that I've bumped into him again; he's doing it again. Not making time to have closure or even see where this is going. I IM him a few ago and pretty much explain to him that I'm busy as-well and sometimes, you have set time aside for someone if you really care for them. I can't put my life on hold until he figures out when's a good time for him and I too talk. We were scheduled to spend time together, but he seems to have more important things or excuses up his alley. I've been sitting and waiting and sitting and waiting on that IM or call that he promised me later, but haven't gotten in yet in 2 days. Hell, I'm busy and he's busy, but I set time aside for myself and others like I said. I'm moving on and don't know why he came back into my life again after two years. I do feel that there's no closure because he's not making the effort to have closure or see where this is going since he's so busy and I'm on the back burner as I feel.
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Answer:
Sweetheart, if it was all about you he would definitely make the time. It seems as though he has more important things and you don't deserve to be put on the back burner. I think you need to move on and find someone who has time for you, I know its easier said than done but that's the reality of the situation, you said it yourself you can just sit around and put your life on hold waiting on him. What if he never gets ready then you would have wasted your life for nothing. Demand more for yourself and you will recieve more. Best wishes to you!!!
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If he is not making time for you, he is NOT interested. Move on.
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