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My guy and I have been together for almost 5 years. We are each other's first love.?

• We have been through so much together. Death of both fathers within less than a year, his mom going through heart surgery, our nieces and nephews being born, and we even got through financially helping each other. We've been together since we were 17 years old. We were friends in high school before we got together. We were usually always together, spending the night at each other's house (mostly mine). We've experience times when we weren't together. Like in 2006, I had to go outta town w/ my family for a month and I came back with him waiting for me and missing me. He didn't even go out to do anything while I was away. This past January, I left again for funeral purposes, for 2 weeks and when I came back he missed me as usual, but the difference is that he actually went out with his friends to the club. I didn't have any problem with that although he always said that he'd rather go to those places with me. He danced with some girls (no contact) and I may have been uneasy about it. He said that at least he told me the truth. The thing with him is that he has always been truthful and faithful to me. So then he asked me why it bothered me when at the end of the night, it's me who he will be going home to. Anyway just last week, he told me that he needed to be alone to figure things out because he is confused. You see with him, he always told me that I was the "one" for him and the girl he wanted to spend the rest of his life with and get married to. Then I would sometimes ask him how he could be sure that "I am the one" since he has never had any other "serious" girlfriend but me. He dated back in middle/high school and had mess arounds and that was pretty much it. So back to last week, he then spoke about how he needed his time to be alone and to figure things out. He said he still loves me and is still in love with me but that he needed to go out and see things for himself. He has always been a homebody and never really liked to go clubbing or to bars because he is not a drinker or a smoker. He is not the type that likes to open up to people or even his family and usually I have to force it out of him, so I am pretty much the one that's gotten close enough to knowing how he feels inside. Late last year, I tried to arrange the whole marriage thing. He always said he wanted to get married and calls me his "wifey" and even has my name on his phone with "his" last name as mine. So I figured there was no issue about marriage. I was planning it at first because my father was so ill and I wanted him to at least be able to walk me down the aisle. Unfortunately, he did pass away so that plan went south. Anyway, I found an envelope in the car last week while we went out to get something to eat with the words, "Married to Antonina Mendoza or find someone else". I guess he is having doubts about us. He told me that how do I know for certain that "he" is the one for me and all I could tell him was that I just know it in my heart. He then said that it was just him then that is confused. He said the stuff I use to tell him about me being his "only serious relationship" got him thinking lately. He said that in a way, he is scared of having "lust" for other women because he knows that he would never want to cheat on me (in the future). He then proceeded to tell me that he needed to talk to other girls and get to know them to figure things out. He doesn't know if he'd be able to date them but he just needed to do this for himself. At first I agreed to just be on a "break" but yesterday, we met and I told him that I think it's best to "let go" for now because the thought of him possibly dating someone else just hurts me. He cried and I cried and he told me how "sorry" he was for putting me through this because he never wanted to hurt me. This is a guy who never cries. He told me last week to think of this as something that would make our relationship "stronger" and that who knows, when he comes back to me, he may be ready to get married with NO hesitation. He also said that this is a journey he has to do on his own because if one day we were set to get married, he would not want to leave me at the alter because of him being uncertain. He told me yesterday that he doubted himself and that's why he really needed to do this. He claims that he knows I am the one he is going to come back to and wants to spend the rest of his life with but I guess there is a small part of uncertainty. I am the only girl he has ever brought home because his parents always told him that the one you bring home better be the one you will marry. He said that he could never bring anyone else home other than me. He made a promise to me that he "will" return to me once he finishes searching for answers. I asked him if his journey will take a year and he told me probably not. He did say that he met a few girls this past weekend but talking to them was kinda "weird" for him since he has always been with me. He said that he would compare those girls to me eve

• Answer:

  well, getting married is a big deal. i think he is just making sure you ARE the one for him. he doesn't know what he's looking for because he's never gone out with anyone but you. i think he wants to look at all the fish in the sea, while still holding on to you he really does love you, but maybe taking some time off will strengthen your relationship because when he comes back and ya'll are married, there will be a slim chance he will cheat on you or anything like that because he already knows what type of girl he wants to be with (which is you) don't worry. he'll come back before you know it. mean while, go with your girlfriends and have fun :)