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How do you heal and move on from a broken heart?

How do you heal a broken heart?

  • My ex and I just called it quits recently and even though he thinks the reason why we broke up is my fault, it's not at all. I loved him so much and I still do- and my heart is torn complelely. I find myself thinking about him more than I did when we were together. I want to move on so badly, but my heart just can't go on. How do I heal my broken heart and stop all the hurt inside?

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    When you spend time with someone on a level such as dating feelings for that person just don't go away overnight, or in a week, a month. I'm sure you feel confused, he broke it off and said it was your fault when you feel it wasn't. That doesn't help matters any, its like being punished for something you didn't do. It leaves that dull ache in your heart and alot of confused things floating around in your head. And it hurts on a level that physical pain could never match. And while there is no one answer for your question all I can do is give you my opinion and hope it helps. If I were in you, here is what I would do. Spend time with close friends, most friends are really supportive. Don't burn them out about constantly talking about your ex, its an easy way to turn good friends into people who avoid your calls. Find something you like to do to take up your time, drawing, writing, internet chat, painting....whatever you have always wanted to do but never seemed to find the time for. This may sound weird but not being in a relationship will give you some freedom to get out and do those things. With any luck your ex will be at the back of your mind and you will come across someone that you will love even more. It takes time, been there myself and its never fun but don't let it beat you down and leave you broken in hurt....if you do, then it is your fault.

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Listen, you must realize that you are broken up with reason. How do you know that HE isnt right? Trully look at things from HIS perspective. Open your self to the possibility that you could have been wrong about some things too. Evaluate the pro's and the con's of being with him and if you can lean honeslty one way you'll know exactly how to bring your ex right back to you. ( what you should be sorry for) But, If he's to trully blame then go and spoil yourself with spa treatments, salt scrubs hair, feet and shopping! Loads of interaction with attractive positive people is a must, even find time for a good book or maybe a great movie release. Stay far away from him anycontact will only make you weak to falling for the same ol game OR make you yearn for him more. Stay strong know yourself and know what it is you want for you! You deserve to be loved completly for who you are.. a mistake is a mistake but thats why its called learning and living life.

foremanlunk

Time will only heal. thats the only way. drugs and alcohol only dull the pain.... time is the only way that i know of.

jacksysco

Comfort from another always helps (or southern comfort, if you get my drift) :P

iwuvcheesypoofs8

time is the best answer. You will find the right person that will help u heal

Polo2006

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quatu

Boy do I feel for you. It takes a lot of time to mend a broken heart. My advice would be to hang out with your other friends and just do things you enjoy. The pain will not go away right away but if you stay busy the time goes faster than when you just mope. And...if you go out with your other friends you may run into another guy and find that you aren't as heartbroken as you think you are. Hang in there. It will get better.

Older & Wiser

Get busy. The less thinking time the better.

Kryptoph

My favorite quote is "if time healed all wounds, God wouldn't be necessary". You've got to pray,meditate, hold on, keep hope, and before you know it... You'll get back to YOU!! Bless You--- Don't lose faith, Drea

unstable creature

time time time it really sux i've been there. you will be ok .. this will give you a chance to get to know yourself !

springo88

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