Help me! i've been rejected from my crush but i can't get over him! can anyone help?

I met my very first love at 19, we lived together too he cheated me on and I didnt have the heart to leave him because I loved him so much so I thought, we were plannin on getting married, but things werent workin out, one day things were great and the next we broke up we broke up 3 times before it was really over it broke my heart I cryed every day and night I couldnt sleep in the same bed we did I slet on the floor one day I went to go talk to his dad he helped me so much to get over him he said i was to good for him and its his lose not mine. no guy is worth killin yourself there are more fish in the sea. after a while I was happy being single was great even whose he was my first love. Now I have found someone great and getting married and my ex called crying because he wanted me back he said no one treated him the way I did but I turned him down because Im very happy with my man trust me u will find someone I promise, just enjoy life u only live once. take care let me know if u want to talk

how do u know he is so perfect if you haven't tried dating other guys?

i thought i was hung up on a guy...in ur case i hate to say it being that ur only 14 but u need to get laid...maybe a little good old fashioned sex would get ur mind off of this guy

obseesed much ...never comit suicide ever ever never !!!! it puts ppl through so much pain

for a 14 year old I must say you are going through a lot .. you must accept the fact that you cant have everything you want .. this is life honey .. and don't forget the one who runs away is the one who is unreachable now he knows that you are there and maybe you even scare him by obsessing over him too much .. killing your self and him come on you have a whole life upon you you will get to see plenty of boys .. and when you grow up these will be only memories which you will laugh at ..don't cry because it wont help it wont do any good to you .. if you cry over a dead person will it bring them back ? I think you are just seeing him now try to wider your looks you will discover plenty of boys out there .. stop buying presents and etc. avoid doing anything including him for a time maybe he will come back to you .. no one likes the attention going away you know ?=)

The first thing is to realize that he is not the only man out there who is chivalrous (opens doors, etc.). Think about this, what if he really is the man for you, but you both have to go through some life lessons before you can be together. Maybe there are some things God needs to improve about him because, even though he may seem like a good guy, God may feel he is not good enough for you yet. You need to realize that your life is priceless, and if you kill yourself at 14, and God had plans for you to marry when you were 24, then there is 10 years of God making this boy perfect for you for you to already be dead and never marry him. Just be patient and know that if you really want something to come true, you have to pray about it and have faith that it will happen. The next thing is to stop worrying about it all together. God has everything under control. He may not always work things out the same way we would, but trust me when I tell you His way always ends up better. I woke up one morning to find my 2 1/2 yr old son dead, and yet I find the strength to go on knowing that there is a purpose in his death, and how lucky I was to have him the time I had him. Keep your head up and no more talk about suicide. Your dream of being with him will never happen if you don't live to get there. God Bless you and you are in my prayers sweetheart! Please e-mail me if you ever want to talk!

Hey if he rejected you and stuff and he always says he is "busy" screw him!!! Ur too good for him if he says thats...if he wants to lose sumbody like you thats his loss man not urs...there is more fish in the sea!!!! hope i helped!!! if i did e mail me please [email protected]

Give yourself some time. My bf just recently broke up with me and im heart broken. Broken hearts heal themselves. The only other advice I can give is to get some profesional help because this seems more then u just not getting over him. You cant stalk people and if you really like him you wont want to kill him. You also need help if you wanna kill yourself, thats not a good thought to think.

u need to stop thats all i have to say to u just stop. he may seem to be all u want but if he's not "the one" then just let it be. respect him and the fact that he does not see u like that. keep the faith who knows what possibilities will open if u start opening ur eyes. look around the right person is out there.