How do you tell someone you are not in love with them?

Why is it so difficult to express your love to someone? Any suggesstions on how I should tell HIM I love him?

  • He is my work colleague very formal to me, sometimes doesn't even acknowledge my presence...But I like his attitude towards work so sincere, so honest. But I'm not sure if he is single and not seeing someone. How do I let him know I'm interested in him, actually head-over-heels in love with him????? What should I do to win him over? Also what are the tell-tale signs to know if he is seeing someone?

  • Answer:

    First of all, you're not in love, you are infatuated...which is worse. You see all the positive sides of him and know nothing about the person he really is. You have projected on him all the qualities you want in a man and you have no idea if he really fits the build. Second, remember he is human and has faults like everyone else. This way he should be easier to talk to. Next, talk to him and ask him about himself. Get to know each other better and then you'll know if he's single or not. Then ask him to coffee.

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If you work tomorrow and see him, ask him jokingly, "I bet you had a hot date on Valentine's Day." Maybe not in those exact words, but something like that. That way you can find out if he's seeing anyone and get the ball rolling........

torices1

Okay to answer your last ? if he is seeing someone and hes happy with her then he will mention her in some way! And there is no easy way to tell a guy your true feelings unless your drunk! Its hard but you gotta do what you gotta do just make sure he isnt seeing anyone!!! Let your heart do the talking girl!

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Valentine's Day is certainly a good way to start talking to him, just let it drop somehow and he should tell you something about his dating status... If you want to show him you like him, try to go for a drink after work with 5 or 6 coworkers more and invite him... Maybe being outside from the office will make him change his attitude, maybe he'll show himself the way he really is and stop showing himself as a distant person.

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