How to forget someone i love bc i cant trust them?
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Iam 20 years old and 3 months pregnant,the father of my child is 23 and we are currently in a relationship. I actually began dating him 8 months ago and he actually had a sexual relationship with a friend of mine but i looked past it bc it wasnt serious. Basically we are now arguing alot bc of my insecurities...I have been cheated on before and been let down by men from a very very early age... I'am miserable bc i constantly think he is cheating, i have never caught him or anything like that, i have respected his privacy by not snooping but only to create more suspicions for myself.Basically iam miserable, this situation brings my self esteem down, i feel like iam not worthy of a healthy relationship and every man will cheat on me, he doesnt have any good qualities that i normally go for and even though hes a big down grade iam afraid of loosing which is why my self esteem is going down. I feel this every day, i dont live with him, he lives 30 mins away and we have no friends or anything in common we are complete opposites but we love eachother. sometimes i feel like i will be stuck with him bc of the baby and if i endulge in his love too much it will only trap me in a worse situation bc i think every men cheats. I dont want us to be enemies , i love him , but i think its best i stop my feelings for him and i move on so i dont make both of us miserable bc today he told me sometimes i make him miserable by just the first conversation on the day... I wont block him from his childs life, but i want to move on bc i dont trust him and i feel this situation is unhelthy for both me and my child...........i need help, i need psychological help also but i dont have money for a councelor now and im not worried about myself at the moment i rather save for my child bc he is unemployed, I am too jelous and possesive...i need ideas and ways to move on bc in the end i dont see myself marrying him
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Answer:
I think you should just take it as it comes.
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