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Why are black women crazy and rude..For no reason?

  • Okay, I'll start like this. I'm a decent Black male who loves black women, to death I might add. But something has gone terribly wrong in my eyes! Why do today's black women act like they have to be "She-Hulk" or something? and for no aparent reason? Check it out, I have had nothing but the worst relationships with black women. Either selfish, angry, or just too independent for you [I hate lil boosie for making that song]. and they will tell you, "I don't need you!" a million times, again, for no reason. Your supposed to be independent, I pay my own bills! Anyway, for some reason nowadays, some black women are "too good" for a respectful black man. They rather be portrade as being over-sexed women on the covers of KING, SMOOTH, SHOW, and of course, Blackmen magazine. To me, they are killing the life of the black women that truly do have values to themselves. As far as those magazines go, do the creators even care about who see's this? I mean, are they promoting to the other young girls in the neighborhood that this type of stuff is okay? Is that modeling? I know you can model your body, but not for a whole damn magazine! I love the shape of a black woman, but now it's getting too perverted. I am a filmmaker in DC, and i just had a discussion with a female actress that I am working with. We have good business relationship and I respect her to the utmost. We just had a phone conversation about what we are filmin this upcoming weekend, and jokingly , told her that the video taped popped and we are going to have to film everything all over, [and we play around from time to time] She decides to get angry at me, and curse me...then hangs up on me...the whole time I didn't argue with her, i just listened to what she said. Why did she hang up on me? Obviously, she doesn't have any respect for me! I call her back and let her know I was playing, and the tape was fine, i ask her why did she hang up on me....do you know she said,"I shouldn't be playing around with her" and "I'm immature" huh? What for? Why? Then they wonder why we date outside our race. We don't have time for that needless B.S. How can you give respect and get none back? Makes no sense to me. Its going on now to where I hear my friends, that normally date black women, prefer to date women of another race. Its sad. Why are they turning black men away? I didn't do what the other guy did to you, so why me? why should i feel your rath..or any other man? Black women are even unapproachable now, and from what I see, the majority are lesbians. What is the problem?

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    It's about time somebody said it. I feel your pain. Black girls get mad at brotha's for dating outside their race, and they get even madder when you say "I would've asked you out, but you were being a total *****." It's hard out here for a pimp.

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I'm a black woman that's not rude or angry for any reason at all. If you want to date outside of your race that's your choice and your right. I hate when men use excuses to do what they want to do anyway. You are really funny with your comments about most black women being lesbians. Wow where do you live and where are you looking for your women?You must be looking in the wrong place.

Kim S

I completely agree with your whole arguement and I only read the first sentence.

Ion Square

Well I'm a young black woman myself, and I will agree with most of what you say about some of the more "stereotypical" black women out there. But again, I don't think you have met every black woman that exist to lump them all in one category that way. I will also add the fact of the matter that most not saying all as I don't know all either, but most black women feel they have to be super strong or independent all the time because they feel they are never getting any of the true respect they deserve on first meeting people. And this is well before they open their mouths. So yes there will be some that jump off the handle and don't know how to relax when they are always being told they are wrong or not good enough for this or that. I can't really speak on any of those magazines that you mentioned as I feel those are the photographers', magazine makers' and even the women that choose to get photographed choice to do all of that. But I can surmise that most of them feel that taking those pictures are their ideal of beauty even if its not the most classy. And lastly I just like to say that what you always see on the outside isn't what someone is truly feeling on the inside. So yes rather someone is loud and seemingly acting crazy, try and look at them from another angle than just the one they are presenting. Because everyone has defense mechanisms they use in one way or the other. And it does take time to get past the tough exterior to find the softer person underneath it all.

Cursed_Romantic

Only God can help us black women. But I don't think its intentional for most of us black woment but our strong sense of self and our strong will is just in our DNA. Out of all the races black women do suffer the most, stemming back from the days of slavery black women were raped by their slave masters, suffer during child birth, had no voice nor rights and today many black women still suffer having to raise children on their own either the fathers are in jail or missing in action. Men and Women need each other and God intends for 1 man and 1 woman to unite and become one. Unfortunatley when there is no father our daughters are longing for attention and affection from a man. Yes it means exposing their body to get it because that whats being protrayed out there that that is what men like. We've go through alot but with our strong attitudes and tough exterior its just a way to protect ourselves from more pain. Why is suicide rate far less in black women than whites? They don't go through half of what we go through! So don't take it too personal when black woman offend you remember she has a tough exterior to protect her fragile interior.

maryjane

not all black girls are the same... but you do have a point i'm a white girl and alot of black girls who i went to school with were just mean [No i'm not racist.] if it's really bothering you date a white girl for a change..

ǐ'm Here For You.♥

I really don't know what the problem is! I'm Latina, been w/ a black guy for over 11 years and have had several run ins w/ black girls in the past! I have heard it all! From dirty looks, comments and rude behavior. I'm not saying all of them are like that but most of them are. I get more crap from them and none from the Latino men! Enough about me! lol... She was just butt hurt because she thought you were serious! Specially being in that industry that she is in. I say date, talk, mingle, network with whoever you like and are attracted to. You never know...

M2

well i guess not all people are the same, you might wanna try finding someone who fits your likes!!!

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