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My Mom Having Sex With Another Man in our home?

• I can’t believe I’m writing this but I don’t know what else to do. It has taken me a few days just to get it out of my head and into writing. I’m a normal 16 year old boy who lives at home with my parents and younger brother. My life has always been good with both of my parents working, I recent years my dad has had to take on extra work in his company which takes him out of town a lot more but I understand because time are more difficult and jobs are hard to come by. He’s a great guy very kind generous with his time and always willing to listen and help out, a regular all round good man. My mom works and has always been regarded as a respectable woman in our community attending church most Sunday’s and helping out in our community. So I and my brother have had a good but solid upbringing for which I’m grateful. Since things started to get difficult in his business my dad has been forced to work longer hours and to travel more to keep business coming in. Last week while he was out of town and I was in bed dozing off asleep when I heard my Mom coming in, she had rang earlier to say she would be late and not to wait up. I could hear her come up the stairs, my parents room is next to mine and as she passed she opened my room to check on me, I didn’t stir and she assumed I was asleep, however as she closed my room door I could hear her say to someone, He’s fast asleep. I almost was asleep when 20 minutes later I could hear noises coming from my parents’ room. I could clearly hear the sound of my mother giggling and moaning over the sound of her bed moving. As well as this I could hear a man’s voice groaning and what sounded like hand clapping. I froze with shock my dad is out of town and besides I had never heard my parents doing it (like Sex), or ever saw my mother act in any way other than her straight-laced way. I didn’t move, I couldn’t move I was so shocked, my god I thought what is going on here. I m not stupid I know what’s happening but why, and what about my dad. I hardly slept all night but did manage to fall asleep late in the night. Next morning when I got up there was no one in the house but my mom and my younger brother. She acted like nothing had happened and when I said that I couldn’t sleep last night because of noises in the house, she said that I must have a bad dream. Even when I said I could hear voices she just said that I was asleep and denied that I could have heard anything. A couple of nights after and shortly before my dad was due to fly home I was at home, and the same thing again mom rang to say she would be late, and not to wait up for her, she also said my younger brother was doing a sleepover in one of his friends houses. We had a rule that school nights meant bed at 10pm and if I was up past this time, there would be questions. So I headed for bed but tried to stay awake to hear her come in. It was around 11.45 on my clock radio when she did come home, twenty minutes later I heard feet on the stairs and again she opened my door real carefully to see if I was asleep. My room was dark and as she closed the door I could hear her shush someone to be quiet. She went into her room with whoever she was with and it started up. Giggling and talking followed by the sound of her bed creaking. At about 1am I could now clearly hear a man’s voice in my mother’s room so I got out of bed and slowly opened my room door onto the hallway. The sound of both of them was loud and clear because they had not fully closed the room they were in. I was now standing outside the room looking at some guy who I never saw before on top of my mom having sex with her. I felt sick and dryness in my throat I couldn’t move for a couple of seconds I was so shocked. I walked into the room and could see that both of them were completely naked with each other so I shouted at my mother, what are doing mom. Suddenly there was a look of shock on both their faces, then the guy shouted at me to get out of there I’m trying to finish and didn’t I learn to knock. My mother was shouting at me to go back to bed. I ran to my room upset and sick. After a while I could hear that they had finished and could her them arguing about me seeing them. I could hear the guy saying to mom that she said I was asleep. And don’t your kids know how to knock. I could hear my mom saying sorry to him and the front door closing. She came into me after this, and I told her that there was nothing she could say to me, and what about my dad what was he going to say. She pleaded with me not to tell him, but when I asked her to stop seeing this guy, she said that she couldn’t promise me this, people change and life isn’t just about being married having kids and working. She said I would understand when I get older what, what the hell does that mean. She is 42 years old and married to my dad for almost 19 years, is this normal for women, or is or is it the age? It’s just that it is so difficult to understand why she would become like this towar

• Answer:

  I would flat out tell her that she needs to come clean with your father. She needs to confess to her infidelities and make a decision about what she wants. She clearly is having issues in her marriage. The fact that she doesnt want to stop seeing that guy means that she is considering leaving your father. This is a serious issue that needs to be addressed immediately. that sucks that you have to be involved, but I would just tell her that you demand she come clean or you will do it for her.