What to do when your girlfriend likes another guy?

What do i do when the guy i like and who likes me back has a girlfriend...HELP! =(?

• ok so theres a guy i like who also likes me back. weve knwn eachother for 8 yrs. were both sophomores in H.S. he currently has a girlfriend, but he has told me a few days ago that he likes me and wants me! like idk cuz he acts as if he doesnt have a g.f so idk what to do or idk if he truley like me cuz it seems like he does considering weve like eachother since the end of the 8th grade. we do constant flirt back and forth. but nothing ever happend. a day ago he told me that he wanted me and that he wanted to kiss me sooo bad and well more but he said that he knw i didnt want to go further (ive said that before in august cuz he was dating this other chick) what i dont understand is that hed act all like this that he likes me and that he wants me hed hold me and tell me that he loves holding me and that im beautiful, gorgeous, cute, sexy and so on. but idk why he always gets a g.f after. so far this year well our sophomore year he got a g.f in the summer then broke up with her then he came to me but we didnt date or have sex or anything like that wed flirt ya but then after hed tell me he likes me hed get another girlfriend. then ignore me and be a douche when hes with her then theyd break up and come to me and flirt. then again another girl after he asks me who i like which is him then here comes another girl. and now hes still with her and he tells me this like WTF So what im trying to ask is what do i do cuz i dont want to get in between his relationship though clearly he wants one between us but idk cuz i do like him i really do. in the past well august he fractured his ribs....he only told me cuz im the girl hes crazy about (he told me that) but the thing was that he didnt tell anyone esle cuz if the word got out hed have to sit out on football sophomore year. he didnt want to cuz hed be on varsity. so that was that and id go to the games (the g.f at the time would go to but flirt with his friend who he hates even before that) id go to to make sure he didnt get hurt. id freak out when hed get put in. then not to long ago like 2 weeks ago he txts me telling me hes in the hospital and he told me the reason why and he now has broken ribs.....im the only one he told..agian and he told me not to worry cuz "i have you to take care of me" his words. its hurts me cuz i have his same p.e class and i see that in weights and in some running it bothers him i see him struggle and well i can that it hurts but he sucks it up cuz were on the track team and he wouldnt be able to compeat. we both do high jump and he does long jump as well and well if youve seen how its done youd knw if you hit he bar it hurt i had that happen to me yesterday at a home meet and i now have two bruises and my back is sore now but ya i dont want him to get hurt but hes sucking it up. if you didnt knw broken ribs takes what 6 months to recover....his own parents dont even knw. he took himself to the hospital once he woke up. what i dont get is why he does this to me. weve never tried dating though wed act as if we were....wed hang out before and hed hold me the whole time, hed hold my hand, kiss my forehead, pick me up and well hed show me that he cares....and id hold on too cuz i like him a lot. for some reason i cant give him up i cant forget him cuz idk hes just.....idk how to xplain. the song oh darling explains how we feel for eachother. he dedicated that song for me. he has told me that hed want me on top of him and things like that and that im sexy and that he like me. in the halls hed smile ya we sit nxt together in geometry we have a total of 4 classes together. he knws he can tell me anything....clearly but idk what to do ........help!

• Answer:

  Have you told him how you really feel. Not just being like "oh i like yu" yu need to actually sit him down and have like a heart to heart and tell him how you feel. I mean like to be honest, to me it seems like your his "re-bound" so to speak, because every time he breaks up with a girl he comes running back to you and it seems like yur thinking "YES, this will finally be the time when he asks me out" but he never does and he goes after some other chick. Find out why hes been acting like this and why hes not trying to be in a relationship with you and why after he tells you he likes you or has feling for yu he gets into a relationship with another girl. I mean clearly he trusts you with alot of personal things and he tell yu alot so why doesnt he just ask you out already. But yeah if you guys are meant to be you'll be. It seems like your a nice girl and clearly your crazy for him. Talk to him tell him how you really truely feel and you never know, fait could be right around the corner :). Good luck girlie!!