How important is honesty in business today?

Did i had unfinished business with him ?

• Last year, I had a thing for this guy at school. I had an eye on him when I first saw him and I fancied him ever since. We weren't in the same class but we took the same bus. I wanted to talk to him but I didn't know what to say since I am shy. Then, one day when we were waiting for bus, I casually said, “isn't it cold today”, and then we started talking from that day. We causally started talking until we decided to exchange numbers. We decided to hang out and I invited him to my apartment since it was winter time and we watch movies. He started kissing as soon as we sat in the couch so we basically made out the whole time .We didn't have sex though. At the end of the night, he told me that he wants to see me again so he called me the next day and wanted to see me since he had fun with me. He came over at my place again and we just relaxed and talk. When we kissed, I felt something and butterflies’ was falling for him. Then, I asked him if he would like to come and spend the night at my apartment .He happily agreed and we arranged and he told me that he would bring his things on Sunday, since he was going to be off that day. Unfortunately, he had to go back home so I had to say good bye to him. Then the next day, he was absent at school and it tuned out that he slept in. When I saw him the day after, the vibe that he had with me on our date wasn't there. I sensed that something was wrong but I just ignored it. I was just happy to be with him. Then the day after, he didn't even come to my class on lunch time like unusual, so I went to his class to see him. As soon as I walked in, he immediately got up and told me that we should go for a walk. We started walking and I could feel that the vibe wasn’t there anymore. He didn't even look at me in my face. We started walking down the stairs, and the first thing he said was, "we need to talk”. That’s when my heart dropped. He told me that I was great but he felt like we were too different and he didn't feel any connection with me so he figured it out we ended it before it went any further. I appreciated his honesty and decency but I was crushed. I was looking on floor the whole time and I was speechless graduated so we haven't spoke on seen each other since that day I decided to move on but I couldn’t. I even deleted his number so I won't be tempted decided to just focus on myself and forget guys for a while. I have had my eye on other guys but I haven't really dated anyone ever since. It’s been a year but I still think about him constantly and wonder what would have happened if things went further and if he did came over and spend the night. I know its time to move but I can't seem to shake my feelings for him. He probably has a new gf and forgot that i exist. I don't know if it’s because we had unfinished business. Will I ever move on emotionally?

• Answer:

  Why don't you enjoy your time in school/college? Focus on getting your college degree, fun, friends.