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How can I find out if my boyfriend is cheating on me?

How do you find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you?

  • i've been hearing things about him and it makes me wonder. i called him on it and he denied it. i trust him but now i don't know if he really would cheat on me. do i check his phone? call the friends? I HAVE NO IDEA and im going CRAZY! and if i find nothing do i just take his word for it? and then can our relationship ever go back to the way it was?

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    In a healthy relationship, you don't wonder if the other is cheating on you. You just know they aren't, because you'd know it if they acted differently and you'd just know that they wouldn't. If you are in doubt, it probably means something is not right between you. Try to think about it from your own perspective. If you were to go and spy on him, would that be good for your relationship? I'd say no, regardless of the outcome. If you don't spy on him, but always keep wondering, that's no good either. So...you either need to get out of the relationship or get yourself to a point where you are so confident about yourself and your boy friend that this is just not a question any more. Good luck. Painful stuff...

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hitmewithyourquestion

why waste yout time . yes he is . life is to short to worry on this matter move on to another that isnt like him .///

the_silverfoxx

Im gonna have to say dont always beleive what you hear .. people talk to much they may just be out to get ur man or maybe you? Has anything between you guys changed or are you just going on hear say .. always remember a funky pair of lips will tell you anything you wanna hear .. Do you really trust him ? I mean has he givin u reason not too? Ive been there and done it .. dont stress yourself out looking thru phone records or asking friends..cuz if there any kind of friends to him they wont tell you anyway LOL .. You only live once live life to the fullest dont worry about the small stuff I promise you if he is cheating everything always has a way of getting out !! Keep your head up girl .. follow your heart you will know if he's cheatin .. it dont do no good to ask cuz they never admit it ..

tainted.luv

You are going crazy and he hasn't given you a reason to???? Get a grip and give him a break. No matter where, who, when, or what, there are those who love to see problems in other people's relationships...they just love to spread rumors and sit back and watch what happens...and you are silly enough to fall for this stuff. You are lucky I am not your boyfriend, for you would be history. No one needs an insecure, jealous mate watching every step they make. Get a life and get back to the program. If he is cheating, (I doubt it), you will learn soon enough and can dump him...or is that what you are looking for... a reason to dump him? You don't need a reason..just do him a favor and own up to it.

goldwing

you follow him and place hidden cameras all around....lol..no but seriously if you fell crazy( been there) leave him its not worth it and you are probably right about how you feel... trust yourself girlfriend.

pinksgirlfriend

leave him and find a good b/f. he is cheating you.

stive br

Check his cell phone for text msgs, or any calls, or even in the address book for names that seem unfamiliar. His email or whatever account he has like friendster etc. If you find nothing, either he's really good at hiding stuff, or he really isnt cheating on you. Relationships depend alot on trust. Good luck =)

whiteblaq

look in his cell phone if there is message of another girl you`ll know it or take more information about ur b.f............ i think he is with another girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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