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Why is it that when a woman talks to a man while in the process of a divorce, she's cheating but not the man?

  • My husband and I have been seperated for 2 months and are currently in the process of filling for a divorce. I came home and he had moved all of the stuff out of our apartment. I hadn't been cheating on him, nor had I been talking to another man while we have been together. When checking the cell phone record, I found numbers to other women he had been talking to that added up to 550 minutes. So I started talking with some old friends and they introduced me to someone I enjoy talking to. He understands that I'm in the process of my divorce and it's not final. Now I'm being told that I'm cheating on my husband and that I'm a whore. but my husband has been calling and talking with other women for months and he's concidered to just be socializing and looking for someone to help comfort him. What should I do?

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    I'm sorry, but cheating is when you have sexual intercourse, in my opinion. Talking does not even come close to that, so I don't believe there is any gray line. Just ignore these people who are telling you that, because they do not know what they are talking about. The courts would never take such an argument (i.e. talking is cheating) seriously either. I'm sorry that some people are giving you a hard time, instead of supporting you. Don't hang around these negative people, please. By the way, there is a significant chance that 550 minutes of time adds up to him meeting these women in person, so he might actually be the one cheating. He might be accusing you of cheating, because he is trying to justify the fact that he did. After all, it's only wrong if he is the only one who did it, but if you both did it, then it was not wrong for him to do it.

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If women cheat they are referred as "sluts." If men cheat they are appraised and applauded.

scarlett_038

It is called double standards.

Unique

Its the same just looked at different.But its between you and your ex.

polockpete40

Unfortunately it is societies standards placed upon women. Women and men call women whores all the time in cases such as these. But men and women dont call men whores. Men can get away with it when women cant. It dont make it right.You know what you are doing and it aint anyones buisness but yours.

resi6

Forget what everyone else is telling you you are not a whore. Because if you are then that means I am a man whore and so is your husband. I was dating my second wife when I was still trying to get a divorce from the first. we dated for a whole year before I got divorced. We married 3 months after and have been married for 2 years now and not a single problem. Oh, and all those ppl whho said I was going to burn in hell for it have repented their stupid beliefs and said that I made the best decision. This guy is probably just a big D^ck so forget him and MOVE ON.

tattoomeats

hello! people are always trying to make decisions for others. they just do! they have a different set of rules for men! why should u let him go? it is not just because your husband soon not -to- be is talking to someone else either. u two have agreed that the marriage is over by filing for divorce. he has friends too. i didn't hear u say that u slept with anyone... so what's the big deal? we as women have needs too and friendship is one of them from both men and women. keep him as a friend. don't worry about what people say. they always have opinions for everyone but themselves! i bet u most are envious of u already! (smile) enjoy your friendship and i hope it blossoms to something beautiful! life is too short! so, live and be happy! there is life after divorce! u know! i am telling u!

bronzeandsexy

don't you stop talking to that other guy!!! if he helps you, then that's all that really matters. it's your and only your business to whom you talk. and in my opinion, since you are getting divorced, you are a free woman and with that said, you can do what ever you think is right for you!!! hey, good luck and stay strong!!! hard times ahead, but it will all pay of one day!!!

Barista

you are getting a divoriced go on with your life and make yourself happy and don't worry about everone else.

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