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5 1/2 year relationship, break up, 1 year of making up, now what? I don't know what my ex wants from me.?

• I've been in a long distance relationship (100 miles) for 5.5 years until November 2008. My ex and I went on a break (still in a relationship) for an entire month in October 2008. We decided to meet up in November to reconcile, but everything seemed different that day. He was acting distant and beating around bush about how he felt about me. 2 days later, we officially broke up on a mutual agreement though were still in love, but probably not enough to continue the relationship. I later found out he started seeing someone on Halloween over a week prior to our meet up while we were still together. I was basically cheated on. He immediately got into a relationship a week after our break up. He did not know I was aware of his new relationship with someone. I was feeling hurt of course. I tried to move on and tried to forget him. I began dating other men, but no one compares. By Christmas, he called me one day and started flirting with me. He tried to get me to tell him that I missed him. He would tell me he misses me. This is the only time I spoke to him on the phone. I finally told him I knew of his relationship and i did not want to be the girl on the side. He knows I'm not like that. I'm purely innocent. I could not go on speaking to him anymore until mid January 2009, he called my parents to ask if he could come visit, but they did not let him until he got a hold of me first. I agreed and we hung out with my friends and family. He would flirt with me, we kissed, hugged a lot. It was wonderful. during that time, I asked him if he was seeing anyone and he said he wasn't. I believed him until February 2009 when we spent Valentine's day (saturday) together. He told me he had to work the next day so he had to leave that night. Sunday morning I woke up, got curious, and I remembered his password for his e-mail and saw a msg from the flower bouquet delivery service that he sent me on V-day. I found out that it was another receipt for a different set of bouquet for another person and it was for his gf that he had been seeing since we broke up. I also saw dinner reservations for them on Sunday evening. He lied to me about not seeing anyone. He made me believe that our relationship was going to progress. I was very hurt, so I called him and made him explain himself. He told me that he was going to have dinner with her but afte rhe saw me, he didn't want to anymore. So he told me that he was going to talk to her as soon as he gets out of work to end things and then drive over here to see me to tell me how his confrontation with her went. He only stayed for an hour and mentioned nothing about her. it was odd because he usually stays with me as long as he can even past midnight when he has work the next day, but this time he didn't and I wasn't aware of this at the time. I gave him a ring he gave me for our 2 year anniversary. The band says my name in Hawaiian. It was to remind him of everything we went through and to help him figure out what he really wants from me. Things were finally picking up between us since then. He's been wearing my ring on his pinky finger everyday. He would come see me every weekend like old times/ the usual. Then at the end of March 2009, he finally opens up to me. He leaves me with a disclaimed that whatever happens, he will always love me and that he's sorry. I was so worried and therefore prepared myself for the worst. He takes me to a park to talk to me. He says that he has been lying to me the whole time. On weekdays he would go see his gf. He admitted that he disrespected me and took me for granted. If i wanted, i could've treated the situation as the closure i needed from the beginning. But i couldn't. I was prepared and didn't cry much. I was just listening and analyzing what I should do. He told me he had to clean the slate and start over. He was finally going to end things with her for good. He said that she mentioned killing herself if he leaves her so it's difficult to make her understand. I find that she immature for her age. She is the same age as my ex, 27. I'm only 23. Though I'm not financially stable, I have my head together. That night, he asked me if he can still call and visit me but i agreed to only occasionally. He told me that he will miss me and he sees me in his future. 2 weeks later, In April 2009, I get a friendly call from him. Things go well and we act as friends. I was expecting a longer break from him but I guess soon was enough for him. Mid April, he decides to come by and visit and eventually comes every weekend since then. I'm thinking our relationship is progressing slowly but positively except all the trust is gone. It's very difficult for me to trust him and not get paranoid about every single thing he does. I still love him to death. I wish I could get over this heavy feeling. At the end of July we go on a 7 hour roadtrip to Los Angeles with my sis and friends for a few days. On the first night, he takes a nap after the drive while i watch tv. I dec

• Answer:

  I know how you feel