I saw my wife making out with our neighbor (female) at our Christmas party. Not sure what my feelings are?

well if she was that drunk she might of enjoyed it but not have really known what she was doing i think maybe she will do it again who knows she might even have an affair with her even if u guys have a happy marriage maybe she likes to try new things watch out what if she leaves u to go with her u never know just ask her about all of this if she loves u then she will explain what happened

Something similar happened to me once.. a friend and i we drinking and doing shots together(together, as in from the same show at the same time lol) and we ended up making out in front of everyone (my husband and her bf..) it was exciting and she was the aggressor for sure.. It was really awkward for me after that.. I didn't know if I should felt bad or as if it were nothing. But it really wasn't anything of meaning. and in fact my husband ended up getting infatuated with the other girl.. :/ obsessive even. I'll admit tho, my husband(at the time) had long since lost our love though. Either way... it was not cool to hide it from you. I would bring it out in the open asap.. and make sure she knows to keep things open between you two.. Let her know your there to listen if she needs,s he could be feeling really confused... But really its up to you. If you don't like it make sure it doesn't happen again, and if it floats your boat maybe you want it to only happen when your involved, or at least informed..

Since your asking questions about it that means it must be bothering you. If you have a good relationship you should talk to your wife and let her know what you saw and how you feel. My question would be would you feel the same way if it was a guy? Cheating is cheating male or female. That might be why it is bothering you. Just a thought.

i myself am also 23, and can i start by saying that " girl on girl" action is commonly the subject of "would u ever" amongst girls on a night out at the pub or talking with your partner. It is the most curious thing every woman thinks about, and i would say it is no more than curiosity for your wife. If she has never inclined to lean towards women before, then i would say the mix of alcohol and femine hormones raging between 2 beautiful women was the cause of this "girl on girl" action. Considering you watch lesbian porn together, also says that she may think you would be ok with her being with another woman as it turns you on, where as being with another man is crossing the line. Maybe she is looking for adventure or to spice up your love life. And to leave the door slighty ajar, says to me, she wanted you to find her doing this, maybe to join in, maybe to catch her in the act. Is your nieghbour over constantly? Are they seeing alot of eachother? DO you think it is still continuing? From what i gather, the nieghbour may be bi-sexual and had seduced your wife, or your wife retaliated back and they thought it was harmless fun at a cmas party with friends. I would ask yourself, Do you consider this to be cheating? Does this ecxite you more than anger you? Because if it excites you more than angers you i would say you are more upset you didnt get to watch/join in or if you ar emore angry about it, i would say you feeling betrayed and disapprve of it. Or maybe she was so drunk, she dont remember and thats why she hasnt told you. Either way i think she didnt do it intentiionally.