How To Cheat Top Eleven?

What leads people to cheat? Should he/she cheat?

• Please read and give me your perspective and list > Age, relationship/married, how long, living together or not, had a recent divorce or break up and dating or married now I often wonder what leads people to cheat. Some say might say just the fact of cheating, others, *******, etc. This usually happens when two people really do love each other. Some times they realize their sorry for cheating after the incident because of the guilt. If your dating its one thing and yeah it usually happens more to those who had a long commitment just as those who are married. As for girls I wonder if what leads some on cheating is because they lost the emotional affection with their bf or hubby. Could it be because of financial issues making them stress that they turn on each other rather than be one or is it feelings that she doesnt feel or have his attention that another guy can whistle or smile and thus feels her emotional tank and you know what happens next her heart can easily be swayed even if it's just flirtatious Guys what's your take on this? Are you aware of these issues? Do youdo something about this or do you examine your relationship often or feel womean are very hard to please or maintain? As a guy, I wonder what leads us to cheat. Is it cause were never satisfied and we always want something better than what we have or after a period of a "good" commitment and the girl knows the love or feelings are their however she no longer gives herself sexually to him which leads him to cheat to find the need else where? I know a guy/friend who is pretty nice and expresses his feelings toward his gf whom by now been together nearlly a year. He is very commited to his gf and he says she treats him like crap time to time, she hardly gives or shows him affection such as communication or holding hands, a kiss, or embracing. As he tells me this he says they don't even sleep that often either. She has her up and down emotional times (possibly due to no jobs and unpaid bills and a divorce. He says she changes her attitude when they go on a trip and thats what takes her mind off for a while; he thinks) and on top of that he's getting depressed. He's patience and says he wont cheat because he wants to realy love her and be understanding and patient. However nearly a year now of them together he wonders is this what leads a man to cheat to because he doesnt feel loved? He said its not really the sexual intimacy because she could express it another way but she dosent care to make him feel tthis way "she says" He said after a while he needs to feel that sexual intimacy but she doesnt feel his tank. He needs to be reminded something is their time to time. He doesnt want to leave his gf because he really loves her and is committed as if they were married. He wants to be that guy who wants to love her faithfully and unconditionally like no other guy. Is this how guys are made into cheaters that we get a bad rap and girls just dont see that when its a good guy their doing it to? Should he go on sacrificing his needs and drop into a bigger depression? Should he hang in and get psychological need met by cheating and still have her believing she'll come around? Any girls doing this to their man? If so whats your take on this issue and has this article affected you to look at things differently?

• Answer:

  Why do people cheat? Because they are afraid to tackle problems in their relationship. Yes, it's as simple as that, but, then again, it isn't simple at all. For all of us have an inclination to avoid problems. Sometimes we avoid them because we believe they will go away. Which, by the way, they never will. Sometimes we avoid problems because we fear disagreement. Either way, it is only when we face the reality that problems in a relationship do not go away but only exacerbate, we have finally found the clue to better relationships. Check out my source for more answers to why people cheat.