What is so great about marriage and divorce?

What do you think about the marriage? Is it worth to get married when you don't tolerate and get divorce?

• I mean why people do get married when they dont take the marriage for something that should last forever? How can you get divorce only because you feel that is over or beacuse you already like someone else or because your wife is not as good as she was? what about the children if you have? Do you think that they deserve being witness of all your quarrels and your bad behaviour? Do you think that they deserve to have a good family in which mother and a father should be together and support and love and take care of them?

• Answer:

  You hit it on the head! You have to be serious about marriage and the one you chose to spend your life with. You need to be sure and not jump into something too fast. But...sometimes things do not work out. Children do not "deserve" to hear the problems going on but I also don't think the mom or dad "deserve" to have to go thru it either. Sometimes even after careful choosing, and consideration, relationships don't work out. It is part of life....and you have to do the best to not yell and argue in front of the kids, and to love them together with your separating spouse as well as by yourself. You cannot let them feel like it is their fault or that they did something wrong, and be HONEST with them. They will get thru it a lot easier this way and accept what is in front of them.