Is it stress?

Memory/stress/depression, and a forbidden LDR(sounds like a soap opera)?

• (imma post the same Q under different topics by the way) Ok ok, so although im dreading posting this...i dont think theres anything left i can do(hahaha i still sound whinny even with the honest truth) mmk SO My boyfriend has really been having some memory problems lately and although im pretty sure why, i don't know how to solve it. He and i are in a relationship that is under constant fire with his parents. We not really allowed to even talk to each other, or see each other, and his mom is always ALWAYS giving him a hard time about me, while shoving other girls his way. On my side, my parents are extremely protective and my dad...is my dad. Most of the people i know dislike me, and the women that his mother talks with all hate me.(im pretty much hated by most everyone) This adds some major stress on (us) him. His family is...lets say interesting, and they do not help with stress. My family is...interesting... We dont know whats going to happen for our future, but ive helped him to not worry about it, and when the time comes everything will be ok, which has helped with some of his stress(i dont mind having to worry about this) School is difficult, we both aren't really out of our houses at all, and i,while now we only live less than an hour away(although we aren't allowed to have contact...doesnt stop love XD), will be moving in 6months across the country. Stress stress stress. He doesnt get much sleep and his stress has gotten so bad that when he really is down he gets a tic. His memory is pretty awful. An example is... (just something random) if he and i would be at a party, talking, laughing, and we said or did something monumental in our relationship(ok, not monumental but important haha), later on in the day, if i bring up the monumental event that took place between us, he will not remember the particular occurrence(he'll remember most of the party not everything), or he will know that the event happened but wont remember the what actually happened, even when i tell him being extremely descriptive. (We both do not drink or do drugs, he doesnt have a history of any mental issues in his family either, just putting that out there) This just adds MORE stress. I know depression(which we both probably have at least a tad) really affects memory(really, what doesnt it affect). Maybe the real question im asking is...how do i help with his stress? I love him, and i Am willing to end the relationship if it would make him happy or if it would be for the betterment of him. He does NOT want me to ever leave him, and we both really couldnt make it without each other, we're the only things in our lives that keep us sane. We are strong, but he cant hide how physically and emotionally this stress is deteriorating him (i still can XD) Whats really gonna help with his memory(besides my encouragement to sleep more[which he's listening to]and eating really good) and his stress? I just would like some input. Im really sorry for my dramatic whinny sob story, im not complaining, im good, i just want to help my boyfriend. UGHHH haha blah *note that this may not exactly be the situation, because i really have a problem with showing my person life to the public, hehe (its close)

• Answer:

  no way i am reading all of that bs