Should you go on vacation without your baby for a week to another country when your baby is only 10 months old

he is an idiot. a woman needs to feel good to go to nudist place. she should dump him

I dont think she should feel pressured where they go - I think leaving the baby at 10 months old is fine, as long sa she is happy with who she leaves him/her with. All mothers need time apart from their babies or you would just be a mother and lose your identity as a person.

This sounds alot like my brother in law - he is a real pig - my heart goes out to her. This guy sounds very selfish. Good Luck to you.

i dont think thats a good idea... how can u leave ur baby for a week and go as u only knw the answers to ur question

Well I was all for this until I read the part that it's somewhere she doesn't want to go! I think a week apart from an infant can be very rejuvenating for new parents if they are confident about the child care they'd get and going somewhere they feel good about. But if her husband is trying to get her to go somewhere where she's clearly undomfortable, that changes everything! I'd say yes to travel, and she should plan somewhere they can agree on. If her husband insists on taking her somewhere she doesn't want to go, I'd bet that the marriage will not work anyway because she's probably doing all the giving and he's doing all the choosing. So if he insists, I'd take the money I'd have spent on the vacataion and drag his butt to marriage counseling (or a lawyer if he refused to go.) Too many women deny their own ideals "to make the marriage work," and a nudist camp will not do the trick as well as a professional if there are true problems.

no if you don't your being stupid.

why can she not pump while she is gone? I highly suggest going.. I have a 10 mth old son and am a single mom it is hard to find time for urself so when you have the opportunity go for it enjoy it because the baby is going to be around at least untill he/she is 18 (God willing) and in order to care for a child you have got to maintain your own health and believe it or not personal time is maintaining your health.... As for the breast feeding issue I don't see why you can't pump breast milk can be put in the freezer for quite sometime I am not sure how long but it is longer than what most think so ask some questions to the dr. or something they should know

That guy is insane, I dont think your friend should have to give up breastfeeding becasue her husband is inconsiderate and is thinking about his needs and only his needs. He has a family now and his child should come first. thats part of becoming a parent, responsibility. And your friend had a baby 10 months ago so if she isnt comfortable with her body he shouldnt have them doing something she isnt down with. I would tell the husband to grow up be an adult and take care of his family. The last time I checked nudist colonies were not a method of saving marriages, this guy is a piece of work.

She shouldn't leave her baby, especially if she is still breastfeeding as it takes a while to wean them... 10 months is too young to be away from mummy for that length of time. Also, her husband sounds like he needs a kick in the pants. He is using the "save the marriage" card as an excuse to go to a nudist resort, where he knows full well she will feel uncomfortable. She should seek marriage counseling (even if it's on her own) because he sounds like he's not interested in being a good husband (or father for that matter, if he expects her to leave her baby for that length of time!)