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Why does sex cause UTI's?

No sex with my husband - did he cheat?

  • I love my husband, he loves me. But something has been strange with him in the past 6 months. We don't have sex. And the only 2 times we've had it in the past 6 months, he's just rolled on me then rolled off. He's capable of so much more. The lack of sex is totally messing with my head. We kiss and pet, but not have sex. And his terrible performance makes me not want it as well. He feared he had a std months back from when he was single and has something that doesn't show till years later. Some STDs do that. I thought he was being paranoid and thought he just had jock itch which he was never diagnosed for. He had an UTI a few months back and lied about it for some reason. Then confessed that he was diagnosed with it a few weeks ago. I laughed cause I didn't know why he lied. then I just read how UTIs in men under 50 are likely to be sexual related. Did my husband mess up and cheat on me? Or is the lack of sex in our relationship making me paranoid? Thanks!!

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    sorry to say this,, but have you considered that this man might be on the DL??? Down low,,, this sound like behavior of a man who might be sleeping with,, I don't want to even type it,, but,,, Its not a women,, I hope that Im wrong,,, but for your own saftey pleasseeeee!!! protect yourself (condoms) if you do get some,, Please take care of yourself...

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Both? Sounds like it's time for a no holds barred heart to heart

wizjp

Could also be prostrate trouble. That lowers sex drive and could develop an UTI from it.

philosophy

STD from when he was single? Probably not telling the truth about that either. You need to get tested as you could have contacted something from him. The reason being if says he had a UTI and lied about it, and now a STD from when he was single, which he is covering himself with a lie, he is having unprotected sex now. If he had of had an STD when he was single, why did he wait till now to tell you and risk the chance of you getting it? The only STD that lies dormat for years is HIV/AIDS and Herpes. Both would have exposed you.

Sparkles

I have no idea if he cheated on you, but something is wrong with him. He needs to see his doctor and be frank with him about what's going on. And then be honest with you. You have some serious honesty issues in your marriage.

Allison, aka Nice Lady

Well you definitely have a problem whether he did or not. Something isnt right. Yah hes probably tooling around if he hid something like that. You are going to have to get to the bottom of it and htere is only one way, communication.

timssterling

He might of cheated and thats why he didnt want to tell you...cos obviously you dont have it right??...so where did he get it...men can get it but its so much more common in woman and most men only get it from having sex with a woman???...i think he cheated...and the fact that he didnt want to tell you kinda proves it...he finally did tell you maybe he thought you werent smart enough to put 2 and 2 together...i would confront him acting like you already know and be pushy about it...watch for his reaction..it should tell all.

Sparkle

UTI's are not neccessarily a sex thing. I'd suggest talking to the guy it's the only way to find out.

maniamgood2me

if neither of you are wanting sex there are obviously some deep rooted issues. you need to talk to him. it sounds like your best bet may be some marriage therapy. those things are hard to deal with on your own. good luck!

Jennifer

yes

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