Why do friends copy you?

Why does my friends ALWAYS copy me?

  • im pretty into photography, and i've been doing it for about 3 years now. But in the past year or so, SHE started it. and everytime i show her a picture that i took, the next thing i know, she has the same one. i started wearing skinny jeans, like the bright colored ones, and i mean, im only a size 3, but shes plus size, and she has the exact same ones as me. i started wearing converse, and now she has a pair. i painted handprints and quotes on my wall, so did she. i have big purses, and now so does she. It makes me sooooo mad and i get to the point that i get so mad that i want to cry. i just can NOT take it anymore. any idead on what i should do, or why she does this?

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    Ever see the movie Single White Female???

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Well, first of all, I can agree that this is pretty annoying, your friend copying you all the time. But look on the bright side, she probably admires you and your choices, which is why she's copying you in the first place. If you want her to stop copying you, then you could try saying "stop" to her nicely, if that doesn't work, then you could take revenge and start copying her, to see how she feels about it. If she STILL continues to copy you, well, we can safely say that she admires you to great lengths or, she has issues. 0.0 :)

~ [ Shauzia ]

she really admires you. thats all. i had a friend who did that too. just let her know youre not comfortable with her doing that. offer to help her out with doing her own thing, and make sure she knows that she needs to be herself, or else she wont be happy and others will just see her as a "poser"

MaulBear

Calm the F*** Down There are bigger problems than this in the world

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TELL THEM TO STOP DICKRIDING ..IF UNSURE LOOK UP IN URBAN DICTIONARY

StefB

because you're awesome!

anthony6dup

She looks up to you.. She probably thinks your talent or pretty or something like that. The truth is we all are just a copy of everyone we know. You act a certent way cuz you see it being done. You just take what you like from the person or thing and make it your own. She apparently likes alot of what you do or get done. So she hopes she could feel better or more comfortable with herself by changing. Now you can do two things. 1. You can have a one on one and tell her straight up how you feel. That you really care about her and want to help her find herself and not see a mirror image of youself. or 2. Tell her she need to leave you alone and be a tottal *****.

Lee

be happy that she is doing that cause that means she looks up to u and wants to like u when she grows up. but i know how u feel my friend does the same thing to. just sit her down and tell her the truth, tell her just be herself and not somebody shes not. and if she still doesn't understand ask her stuff that she likes 2 do, not stuff u like 2 do and try telling her that u love that she looks up 2 u and stuff like that but i want u to be yourself and not me, and we still can be friends even if ur not just like me! i told my friend that and it totally worked, so try it!

Katie

she is a fan of yours ,now you know what a celebrity feels like and all they can do is ignore it as the fad will wear off eventually. if this girl is your friend you could take her aside and tell her that you want to be original not to look like twins as it has started affecting your lifestyle like the way you are spoken to as ppeople are finding it bazzar that you arent realated and look the same.just ask her to stop it.if she doesnt you will just have to not be her friend anymore and ignore her .do not scream or this will wreck what life you have made for yourself . just like a celebrity you need to keep your cool and ignore everyone that does this to be like you.you should actually turn this hate around to wow im proud she likes the things i do the clothes i wear and the items i pick and use this to begin a business to make money like a designer.take care

you sound like a brat...get over it

jayman

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