How can you become more outgoing?

How can someone become more outgoing and social?

  • I can talk to people at school but outside of it, It's hard for me to interact. It takes a lot of courage for me to organize getting together and it pains me deeply when things don't work. I don't enjoy chatting on the computer or phone, but I want to be more comfortable and outgoing. Any tips for me?

  • Answer:

    Don't be nervous and be yourself. I was in your situation, I was super duper shy and I rarely talked to people on the phone. Now I talk quite a lot and I'm always (not really always) on the phone. Heh heh.. Just remember that you've only got one life to live, so live it well. Yeah.. Don't be nervous because if the person you're talking to can feel that you're nervous it will be awkward. And be enthusiastic! :3

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plan things more in person..in definatley tends to work better for me. you should plan things while your at school..then it is a better chance of it happening.

well you could get up with somefriends and see if they could bring some other friends u half to come out of your shell sometime or join a group thing like yoga to get to know some people :)

Lauren

No theres no hope for you, your born with shyness it can't be changed

Abe

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