How do i tell someone that i want to remove them from my friend list w/o hurting their feeling?
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okie here is the story, i accidentally add this girl to my friend list, i thought she is okie to be friend with by reading her blog, she seems nice, but after i added her to my friend list, she changed, she cussed alots and wrote some nasty stuff about sex in her blog, i'm not discriminated her, but since i'm a good christain girl i just can't imagine myself being her friend anymore :( awwww i'm sad, hurt, i feel betray :( please help me, i don't want to be cruel by just remove her from my friend list without letting her know :( thankyou very much for reading my long long question ^_^
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Answer:
OK YOU SAY YOU ARE A CHRISTAIN WHAT WOULD CHRIST DO WOULD HE DELETE HERE FROM LIFE.NO, WOULD HE TURN HIS BACK ON HER BE CAUSE SHE CHANGED, NO. STOP FOR A MINUTE AND SAY A PRAYER FOR HER SHE MY NEED YOU TO BE A GOOD FRIEND.SHE MY NEED YOU TO TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE IS TRYING TO SAY, THINK HOW CHRIST WOULD FEEL IF YOU WERE GOING TO BACK AWAY FROM HIM.
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who cares.....ignore her and she'll get over it....it's not like its a friend you would see everyday....
big c
Friendship is from bothside & based on trust if she don't care about your feeling then remove her without any feelings
san
I would just remove it, and don't feel bad for having morals and convictions. Good luck and God bless you!
Cheryl K
You have every right to remove her from your friends list. She cramps your style. You, being a good Christian girl, pass judgment on her, and deem her unworthy of your acquaintance because her filthy mind soils your Holiness.
Suz E. Home BAKER
just do it and dont explain
puertoricout
U can either just remove her and let that be the end, or U can let her know how U feel. Ask her to refrain from the profanity and unsavory sexual content. See what she says. As U know (being a good christian and all) everyone deserves a second chance. U can then base ur decision on how she responds to U. Smile. (^_^) Don't let this bother U too much.
Timber
tell them that you email address drooped some of u'r address and hers was one of them. or say that u have a corrupt file that drooped some of u'r email contacts. Then just talk on the phone unless u don't want to talk ,email or have any contact with her then it don't matter what u say.
mugsy
You don't like her, you think she is a horrible person because she uses profanity and talks about sex a lot. It is ok if you don't like that stuff in other people as your friend. But you don't want her as a friend, you are not her friend, she is not your friend. So what is the big deal about deleting her? Just do it and the next day, possible week, I don't know, you won't even remember her. You will be in the confines of your wholesome "pure" friends. But remember beggars can be choosers. She might curse and talk about sex, ever thought about asking her not to talk about that stuff around you? Or was first thought, eww, she talks like this and acts like this, I don't like her, I want her out of my life for good! Than who is really the bad person here? If you hadn't already, ask her to stop talking like that around you.
Fallen
Tell her to stop cussing and what not! It may seem hard but you need to grow a backbone!
johnathen777
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