What can i do if im eighteen year old girl soon to be nineteen and have no friends?

Please go to the campus medical center and ask for an evaluation. You are depressed and angry. They can help you.

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You sound a lot like me. We should talk! Email me.

it sounds like the environment you came out of before college was not to healthy a place for developing friendships. but just think college is a whole new environment, means its possible to get a fresh stat on the friends and friendships, you have some insecurities, true but allot of us have insecurities, what really defines a person is their ability to work through and with difficulties. see a counselor at the school their, they can probably come up with some ideas to help you make some friends, as for the holidays, remember their are always some one who cares, what about your parents, go home tell them you love them, and just be there for them. regardless. you don't know me but i do care!

I used to be very shy, and people thought that I was stuck-up. I thought that I was ugly and unintresting to be around. Find out something about yourself or your family that is interesting or unusual. College is the perfect time to reinvent yourself. Don't be fake, just be yourself and don't worry about what others think so much. Your best friends will like you just the way you are. Take a chance and do something that you,ve always been interested in but were too anxious to try. Find people with the same interests as you and you will find a friend because you will always have something in common. And remember-God made you-And God doesn't make mistakes. Good luck.

Start joining some clubs. Seeing that the semester is over, next semester, the clubs should open up to new members. See what you are interested in and join. Its a great way to know people and make friends. You shouldn't have to be left out!

Sounds like you need serious counseling and possibly medication. What you're experiencing sounds like textbook depression and there is treatment for it. You don't have to live that way. It could be that a lot of what you feel is chemical and can be corrected. I suggest you go see a therapist and if necessary a psychiatrist. Once you get your mind in a healthy state, self-confidence and friends are sure to follow. And don't worry about being a flawed person. We all are! Trust me, even people you think are perfect are terribly insecure about something. Just work on being the best version of yourself you can be. And try to be a little more social. You say you attend all your classes, which is great. But how about joining a club at school? Signing up for a committee? Or even starting a club for other kids who feel the way you do? Or try volunteering your time for a worthy cause. Nothing takes your mind off your own troubles like helping someone else through theirs--especially around the holidays. Plus, it'll make you feel really good about yourself. Contact the Red Cross or the ASPCA, or even Toys for Tots. Also, talk to your parents about how you're feeling. Odds are, they don't know it's this serious. Let them be there for you. Most important, don't give up. Just be proactive about getting help and hang in there.

You said you were scared that people would dislike you if they knew the real you. If you're shy, don't let it stop you. People will dislike you more if you try to be somebody you're not. Personally i hate them. Posers, wannabes, wangsters, and people that say things just to be liked. Be yourself totally. And you shouldn't worry so much!! You're in college! Have fun, get a degree, and enjoy the ride! And you also said that the last group of so-called "friends" made fun of you. They are not real friends. Find someone who understands you and listens and takes into account your feelings. Keep your chin up and dont worry about what people think of you! If they can;t appreciate your qualities then forget them!

Your setting yourself up. Stop playing that same tape over and over in your mind. Your downing yourself. Hold your head up high, walk down the street with a big smile on your face. You would be surprised to see how many people will respond back with a smile. Some will even say "hi" even if they don't know you. After doing that for awhile, maybe you could look for some group/organization that might be of interest to you.