How do I learn to accept love?

My best friend's girlfriend is one devious character. He's blinded by love. How can I learn to accept her?

• Answer:

  Wow, I'm impressed. You ask how you can accept her. Not "how can I get rid of her," or something nasty. You get good friend points for that. It's hard to accept difficult people, but I had some luck when a woman I worked with confronted me about the friction we had. I was honest with her and she was honest with me. Perhaps approaching it in that way, honestly with a hope to forge a new beginning by telling her that you want to get past seeing her as devious. Asking her for her help might be the trick. You're awesome for being such a good friend, good luck!