How do I become more social and a fun person?

How can i become a more fun and random person and not ''normal''?

  • i am always told i am normal... which i find a bit offensive sometimes cause for me it sounds like they r telling me i am dull and boring. even the group i hang out with me r fun and random, thats y i like to b with them but i am recently being a bit left out( i still get invited to stuff they do thogh). how can i losen up a little and be more fun to be with?

  • Answer:

    Best advice is BE YOURSELF. You should never change to be something your not. Its kind of like lying. Be true to yourself and you will never be boring. As long as your happy who cares what others think.

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I hate the way people think they're different because they're fun and random. Right now, everyone's "random", so that's the normal. Try pulling that next time someone calls you "normal". Some people are just more outgoing than others. Try to catch on to conversations, and just say whatever comes to mind. Don't think about it.

Simba<3

You shouldn't try to change yourself for your friends or to fit in. Stay the way you are. If you feel as if you only act "normal" cause you are afriad of what people will think just stop caring. I used to care about what people thought of me and wasn't having as much fun. Stay who you are and you will fit in just fine :)

Grace S

BE YOURSELF, BUT HAVE FUN.. LOVE YOURSELF AND OTHERS AND LAUGH MORE : )

KLJC

Normal is not normal, do what makes u feel good! Who cares what other people think!

skybuggzmom

ok i think you should ignore what people think and just be yourself dont change yourself for anyone. you can try different sports if you want to be more well rouded or join a club but dont change yourself for other.s

tonna o

If you have to go out of your way to be "cute" and "random", then you're going to be even worse. People will appreciate you a LOT more if you're boring and being yourself, rather than being fun and random and it being a fake act. You're probably not even that boring, or maybe your friends don't know that you are interested in the same things that they are since you don't vocalize your opinions. Try speaking your mind a bit more, but don't go out of your way to be someone that you aren't. A poser is the worst.

herro

Try to develop a good sense of humor. Everyone enjoys someone who can make them laugh. As long as you try not to be offensive you can be more popular with a good humor sense.

NorCal Guy

I don't know what you're like so I don't know how to tell you to be different. Although I can tell you how to be a bit more random. Every Sunday, get the Sunday newspaper and go to the Calendar section. In the back, there will be listings of local concerts and such and tell your friends you're going to it and that they should come. If you don't have anyone to go with, still go! It's important to start doing things on your own to gain confidence. You'll hear about more random fun things through the grapevine. If you want to be seen as differently, maybe a little edgier I would suggest a haircut. One that is edgy and a little punked out. Get a pomade from the hair section to help exaggerate your chuckly layers and buy some new make up. Wear more eyeliner and shop at different places. Take someone whom you really admire and model yourself after them. If you like the girl that seems totally confident and independent, try to be more like her. Wear the shoes that you think will give you the personality you want. If you can't afford new clothes, rip up some old ones and try to "invent" a new style for yourself. Find out the hip music that people listen to (not the Jonas Bros) and start listening, memorize the lyrics and try to learn of as many bands as possible. The more you know, the hipper you'll appear.

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