Is this girl flirting with me?
-
Okay here's the situation: 1.I am 21 years old and am in college and am overweight. 2.There is this bar in my college town that I recently started going to. 3.At this bar, there is a cute blonde bartender who seems like a real sweetheart. She is also the owner of the bar. She's a couple of years older than me. 4.The first time I went to the bar, I was sitting at the bar watching a sporting game on TV. 5.I was wearing a Los Angeles Laker t-shirt. 6.The bartender/owner approached me and said "You're a Laker fan huh?" and I replied "Yeah, no doubt." She then asked me who my favorite player was and I told her Kobe Bryant. She then started telling me some of her favorite players from the Lakers. But she made it clear that she was a Boston Celtics fans. 7.After we talked about basketball for a couple of minutes, she told me that "I should come to the bar to watch some of the playoff games." I agreed but then I jokingly warned her that I can get angry during playoff games and she laughed. 8.She then had to get back to work. 9.I was at the bar for about an hour and I noticed that I was the only person she engaged in conversation while I was there. I was the only person she talked to. 10.I have a friend who is semi-friends with her and he told me that she is a real down to earth girl that would never flirt with someone for extra tips and would never flirt with someone to keep them coming back to the bar. 11.And keep in mind that she had a smile on her face the whole time we were talking. She amde direct eye contact with me the whole time we were talking. 12.And keep in mind that she approached me and started talking to me. I didn't approach her. She came over to me while I was drinking my beer. 13.I was at the bar with a friend. So I wasn't alone. So she didn't start talking to me because she thought I was lonely or anything. So that takes care of that. So my questions are: 1.How do you interpret this situation? What is your gut telling you? 2.What are your general thoughts about all of this?
-
Answer:
From an outside perspective, it sounds like she was just being friendly and you're reading too much into it; which shows that you have a raging schoolboy crush. My advice is to become a regular at that bar, have a few similar conversations and then approach her if you're still getting good vibes.
Fgfgd at Yahoo! Answers Visit the source
Related Q & A:
- How To Watch Gossip Girl On IPhone?Best solution by itunes.apple.com
- How can you tell when he is flirting?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- There's this girl I like, and she likes me back, but she's Bi and she likes another girl to. Any advice?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- Cute things to do while flirting?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- A boy meets a girl on his first date what should the boy say to the girl?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
Just Added Q & A:
- How many active mobile subscribers are there in China?Best solution by Quora
- How to find the right vacation?Best solution by bookit.com
- How To Make Your Own Primer?Best solution by thekrazycouponlady.com
- How do you get the domain & range?Best solution by ChaCha
- How do you open pop up blockers?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
For every problem there is a solution! Proved by Solucija.
-
Got an issue and looking for advice?
-
Ask Solucija to search every corner of the Web for help.
-
Get workable solutions and helpful tips in a moment.
Just ask Solucija about an issue you face and immediately get a list of ready solutions, answers and tips from other Internet users. We always provide the most suitable and complete answer to your question at the top, along with a few good alternatives below.