What do you look for in a girl?

What does it men wen some1 tells u," U look like a girl! " and u r a girl?

• Be4 my grandmas b-day party i was wering denims, a mohogany shirt, blue faded convers, a mohogany sweatsirt, and a high pony tail,and ofcorse my matching accesories Its just my style and character. But later my step aunt gets home and i change into some loose capries, a vintage brown, and light brown short sweatshirt, covered high heels and add some matching accesories, and my make up. When i come outside my step aunt says, " Ooooh, u look like a girl, a girl ,a girl!!!" Then the rest of my step family starts saying the same thing. Then i asked my cousins if i looke like a boy( im the only femal child in the family) they said i look like a prettyfull lil chick.I even asked my mom. She said that I look like an avarag teen girl. My step dad said the same thing. And i asked every single 1 of my friends and they all said that I look very prettyfull. so y would my aunt tell me that i look like a girl?And i am a girl? Then l8er I go 2 another party and she says it 2 my mom, not me, my mom!!

• Answer:

  Maybe your step aunt said that because you were dressed more feminine than she's used to seeing you. I've had that same problem for years now. Some people around me think that since I'm 22 I should be wearing makeup, skirts, and more tight fitting clothes. I don't like wearing makeup, skirts and dresses~ it's just not my style. But when I have to dress up for something or if I wear my hair different from my usual style then people will tell me I look like a girl or I look girly. It gets annoying hearing it because I am a girl so I'm supposed to look like a girl. But I think it's just because once you put on your makeup and some clothes that probably fit you a bit closer than your previous outfit or what she was used to seeing you wear, that's why she said that. At least that's why people have said it to me