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I did something really bad and now i need help please help me.

Please I need help.. i think i gave someone something bad and i had no idea?

  • i was talking to two guys... nothing serious.. the first guy came on top of me and stuck it in my a** and i felt pain the next day and saw white stuff near my down there region but thought that it was because of what we did last night and didnt think that it would be an std at all... so the next day/two days later i did the same stuff with the second guy... then about a week or so later my symptoms continued getting worse till the point where then i felt that something was definitely wrong and i went to go get checked up and found out a week after that that i was diagnosed with chlamydia (which is both treateable and curable) and i got the medicine for it and ate it... i feel better now and the doctor said she is licensed to give me more free medicine to give to anyone that i feel i may have given it to... which i think i may have given it to the second guy.. the problem is that around that time he also had started talking to me less... and given me vibes as if he is annoyed or just doesnt really wanna talk to me anymore... and then finally yesterday (a week later of not talking) i texted him hey :) and for the first time he never responded... we're not super close so i dont know how i would get him to get treated and how to tell him about it.. he has alot of friends and i feel bad and embarrassed and scared that hes going to spread rumors or tell everyone if i tell him, but all i want to do is help and a part of me even wonders if he gradually stopped talking to me because he may have started getting symptoms... but alot of people are asymptomatic and for all i know i might not even have passed it to him because he didnt stick it in me, we just played around and came really close to it... what do i do... i feel so helpless.... i really cant think of what i can do without any bad repercussions at this point..

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    I must say, that's a mighty funny way to talk. Usually talking involves much less anal sex. If you're having sex, you must be responsible enough to do the right thing. Tell both guys they need to get checked by a doctor.

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The main thing is, you HAVE to tell him to stop further spread of the infection. To avoid bad repurcussions, try telling him as though it isn't your fault (after all someone did give it to you). What I mean is you could say you went in for your annual checkup and the doctor called saying you have chlamydia. Say it is between him and one other guy that could have possibly given it to you and that he needs to go get checked so that he stops spreading it to other people. You don't need to assume responsibility and give him the medecine, he can go to the doctor and get it himself. After all, maybe it IS him. To be responsible, tell every single person you have been intimate with since your last STD check this same thing. And be safe. Also, 'nothing serious'...he 'stuck it in my ***'. Who are you? Have some self respect. Nobody finds an easy girl attractive, which is probably why he stopped talking to you to begin with, not because he now has chlamydia because you're right the disease is typically asymptomatic. Contact him saying: I got a call from my doctor after my physical exam a few days ago saying I have an STI and I believe that you gave it to me. You need to go get tested. End of conversation. Don't get into any emotional or long winded conversations over it, leave it simple as that. That is your responsibility is to let him know he potentially gave you, or you potentially gave him and STI and he needs to be checked and treated. Good luck and remember, leave it to a one text conversation. There is only chance that this will work. In the case that you are the only girl he has had unprotected sex with, it will be clear that you are the one who indeed gave it to him. You need to take responsibility for you actions, and sometimes when you do things like let guys stick it in your ***, you will have negative repercussions. If this happens, just lay low, do not try to defend yourself or make it a big deal. Everything passes, trust me! Just be mature about it and learn for teh future to be responsible. Cheers.

nonfiction

You need to tell him. If you had oral sex with him then it can also be transmitted through that. It best you tell him so that he does not give it to anyone else. I know what your going through. You need to calm down and take a breath. Everything is fine. If he doesn't talk to you because you did the right thing by telling him then that is his own problem. If you don't tell him and you end up messing around with him and he does have it then you could end up contracting it again. Do the right thing!

Jessica

I highly recommend that you first take a very cold shower and cool off those hormones that are causing you to get around. 2nd I hope you find God because I think you really need some morals if your sleeping around with different men outside of being married. I hope you get your heart right and stop spreading around all the garbage that comes with what you do. Please don't let me offend you I just want to be straight with you because I believe your problem is a common one and it's name is sin. We all have this thing and the only help for us all is to find a loving savior. He is the one that loves you and he wants so much for you to find him and except him in your heart. If you seek out the Lord I'm confident that you will find him and if you surrender to him and except his free gift of salvation I promise you will then find true love and only then will you be able to love another human being. Good luck, and I hope you find the one that will love you and forgive you and never let you go. Jesus Christ truly love you. John 3:3.

Rob

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