Blood and puss filled pimple from shaving?

I think I may have herpes but I am unsure, please help!?

• Ok so here's the deal.... I have been with my bf for almost four years now and have only slept with one other guy. I have had a bump form on the ridge of my outer vaginal lip about 3-5 times in the past 3 years. it starts off as a bump thats sort of like a pimple that you feel comming on. You cant see it on your skin but you can feel it. It eventually comes to a "head" like a pimple and then I pop it white puss stuff comes out and sometimes oily clearish liquid comes out with some blood, again like a pimple. is this herpes? it always comes to the same spot and its only ever one bump. I am terrifyed to go to the doctor or talk to my boyfriend about it. also I found a generic bottle of valtrex in his dresser drawer b/c I am nosey and snoop when he is not home. I have also noticed that it has been filled several times over the past 3 years. This being said he does get cold sores frequently and I am just too scared to confront him about it bc then he will know that I was snooping through his things! I have a doc appt. for my annual femenine check up in March and plan on getting tested for STD's like I always do I have always come up negative but I have never been tested for HIV they always just do a swab test, do you need to get a boold test done for herpes like HIV. I am so scared someone please help me!

• Answer:

  I would get checked out immediately because it's your health and it's a good indicator to see if he really is snooping around. Call the toll-free number 1-877-516-1656, they'll find you an anonymous clinic near you and you can get tested on the spot. Good luck and try to stay calm!