How To Be Sexy Man?

How can I be sexy for my man with a skin disease?

• It's killing me inside that I can't be myself. My boyfriend checks out other chicks and looks at porn and girls shaking their *** on youtube, but I have physical in-capabilities. I suffer from Hidradenitis Supprativa, which is a severe skin disease. I have it in the groin, buttocks, breast, stomach, armpits. My boyfriend is aware of this, but it's not sexy at all. I bleed and pus constantly oozes out my body. It is also very painful and sometimes sex is hard to handle. My boyfriend loves sex and I don't feel he is that happy with me, although he says he is. Will this relationship last with my illness? Can I ever be sexy? Would you think someone is sexy with this disease? (Please don't be rude)

• Answer:

  Why can't you be yourself? Honey, all guys like to check out other chicks. That's how guys are. Don't blame that on yourself because it's probably got nothing to do with you. This relationship can last but not if you don't develop some confidence. If you constantly doubt yourself and put yourself down, he will also start to doubt you. If you can become confident and learn to love your body, he will love you even more for it. Have sex with the lights out until you are more comfortable. Then upgrade to candlelight (everyone looks sexy in candlelight). Even if you can't actually be confident in yourself yet, learn to ACT confident and soon you will start believing it. Good luck!