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So i have an awful feeling im going to actually have to dance at a club this weekend,i have a few questions..?

• so im 18 and have done a good job at never having to dance ever (not even at weddings) but i feel the dreaded time has come. im 6ft 2 so already have a disadvantage of being tall so can anyone at all give any tips on not even to be good at dancing but just not to look stupid? anything will be appreciated. also how can i process from dancing alone/with friends to with maybe a stranger, or is that just seen as weird? (dont like clubs so ive no idea) so anything which wont make me look stupid will be great help :) if it helps im quite confident as a person and im not shy and can start conversations with anyone about anything, but the thought of dancing literally terrifies me :| peace

• Answer:

  act like you're observing everything. and add some timed movement. OR talk more, dance less. OR observe for a few seconds and improvise.