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What do do about the head person of this dance group I'm in!!!!!?

• Okay so me and my friend was in this group that we had audition for about a year ago. The head person of the group was really excited about it at first cause she's gotten a lot of girls that had audition. The problem is, all the girls that she wanted in the group that had good enough experience disappear and so me and my friend were the only two left in her group. So we were still practicing and we notice that the head person started canceling practice. To make a long story short, she had disappear herself and when we tried to contact her, she had sent us a message by telling us that she can't do it anymore. So we thought she had given up on us and the group. So we were nice enough to like take over. We had sent her an email to let her know that we will take over to give her a helping hand since we never offer. Only cause at the time, we felt that since she is the head person of the group, that maybe she didn't need our help cause she was stuck on choreographing along with failing to keep other dancers in the group. So we had also told her that we will hold auditions to add more girls to the group. She was all down for it. So me and my friend right away started looking for a studio to practice at, which we did!!! We also started choreographing to another song that she wanted for us to dance to. And through out the whole time, we would either call, texted or email her what we've been doing. When we finally decided to go ahead and have auditions, we wanted to schedule a time to like meet with her and talk to her about if she's interested in the group at all or if she doesn't want to do it period. We notice she never return our calls, texts, or emails until the day we had auditions. Once we had posted an ad and got a whole lot of responds, she finally decided to respond. At first, we thought she was ready to join the group again and that she's not under pressure. So we were very excited cause we even got someone whose interested in hooking us up with shows. So when we had the auditions, she was very excited! We even had the person to talk to us about how he would want and where we can perform at. Which is a great idea!!!! He even performed for us and gave us advice to our routine when we did have practice. So here is where everything went down!!!! First thing that went wrong was me and my friend talked about having everybody in the group to sign a contract so that way, they know we mean business. As well as rules and how we are not responsible for damages to the studio, dancers stealing our dance, other other stuff that we had to cover. We had sent the head person a copy so that way, she can read it, approve it and sign it. That way, we can make copies and have the girls to sign it, date it and the head person's signature will already be on there. She didn't want to have us to have the girls to sign an agreement cause she felt it wasn't necessary. All we were trying to do is cover her back. The second thing that went wrong, was right after our first practice as a group, she right away had sent out a message to me and my friend that she was proud of us and she wanted to thank us for putting everything together for her. Than all of the sudden, she wanted to schedule practice out of no where the day before Thanksgiving!!! We thought she just wanted to meet with us to work on an old dance that she never completed so that way, we can teach the new girls. But what we didn't think that was cool was she had email the new girls to try to get them to come at the last minute, she even told us that she has a friend that is going to join the group. So me and my friend ended up showing to practice but at a whole another studio and we were so surprised to see that she had changed our dance that we took sooo much time into choreographing to. And to make things worst, the girl that she was friends with, we never met her until that day and she was helping the head person to change everything. All the ideas that everybody else that had put into certain parts of the dance, she changed it. It was like a slap in the face. We were soo upset and now we're putting the pieces together. We think she was intimidated by how we achieve on getting this group together. We have strong feeling that she is up to something cause she wanted for us to teach her the whole routine. We never got a chance to work on the dance that she had choreographed, we also think, she is either already in another group and she wanted to teach them our dance, or she wanted to learn the dance that we choreograph to so that way, she can get some kind of credit and change everything around since she disappear for so long. We also think the reason why she wanted some of the girl's contact info cause we think she will try to get them into another group that she's in or something. The girl that she had at practice a couple of days ago was not friendly!!!! Some of the girls that we have in the group, she was not too much liking them cause she doesn't see potential

• Answer:

  she doesn't sound like she is too much of a head to me..when she started dippin out on yall..that would have been my clue to start my own group..this may seem hard..but this is what i would do..i would start my own group..talk to the person that is suppose to be the "head" and tell her what you feel about what she did..i would also tell her that she could be apart of what yall did..and if so..she had to take a back seat..it sounds bad i know..but yall did the work..that is really yall group..not hers..she doesn't have a right to take the work that yall did and call it her own..she needa be put in her place..or if you want to just avoid doing all that..you can just leave the group and start your own..take the people that helped yall get to where yall are now..if they wanted to work with yall group and was supporting yall..they won't turn their backs on yall..she is wrong..and she needa pay for her actions..or you could just sit back and let her walk all over yall..not the best option..but those are the only options really that you have..