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Why does alcohol make you "lose your inhibitions?

What kind of drink can help me relax and lose my inhibitions in bed?

  • I have a lot of anxiety about everything - called generalized anxiety disorder. I've been going to different counsellors for years for help and take anti-anxiety medication (that is okay to use with alcohol in moderation). Neither of them work. I'm still very nervous in bed, and just relaxing, going with the flow, and enjoying it is extremely difficult for me. Can anyone suggest a good drink to relax me and loosen me up a little? I tried 1 -2 wine coolers and that helps a little bit, but not much. I need something a little stronger. Please help because I have a high sex-drive, wanting it so badly, but I have trouble letting go of my inhibitions.

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    Gin & Tonic Mojito Whiskey Sour Vodka & Cranberry Rum & Coke Jagermeister & Red Bull (or vodka & red bull works too) just try each of them (on seperate occassions) and pick your favorite

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A good bottle of wine, red, white, or blush, shared with your partner should help you relax. Wine coolers no longer contain real wine, they are mostly now just alcopops; sweet flavored malt beverages. Real wine would be slightly more potent. I find I enjoy a nice mellow buzz from drinking wine. Please be careful not to take it too far with alcohol as a social lubricant, it can be a slippery slope. Alcohol doesn't change your behavior or capacity for behavior, it just lowers your inhibitions. You know what you're doing while you are drinking, you just don't care. Good luck to you and enjoy.

Fish Fry

Try apple-cider vinegar or oil pulling. It works for me....I have social anxiety disorder to where I couldn't sleep at night. Take a look at this website. It may help...

Determined at will

smoke a joint!! :) would work a treat!

PurpleHaze27

try warm milk, its been known to be to be calming

Bob be Anyone

If you have anxiety, you should see a psychiatrist about getting a prescription for a psychotropic medication. If you have tried anti-anxiety medication in the past and it didn't work, you should either try a different med or keep taking it a little while longer. Most psychotropic medications could take up to 6 weeks to start to become effective. Also, different meds work for different people. If you tried one and it didn't work, keep trying different ones until one works. As far as what to drink, I would try something with a little less sugar than wine coolers. Maybe wine or scotch. Although you should never drink while taking medication.

Frank

use your imagination rather than drinks and drugs. You may as well use ghb.

judy s

Heather I would give you a hot oil massage first to relax you & perhaps we would bathe together first before I massage you .*I believe it would work for us.*

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i agree with purple haze. get ******** high before you get in bed and take a couple shots of vodka. that will do the trick for sure. You talk about having a high sex-drive like it's a bad thing.

steaks

just have a blunt and a few beers and get ready for the ride ;o)

J.Flyswatter

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