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Im 24, very depressed pls help.?

  • respected all, Im 24 years, completed B.com(p) in 2008-40%, from DU school of open learning, as i scored 66% in 12th, i did got a seat in BBA, but due to some wrong guidance in dropped it and went for B.com-correspondence and Doeacc A level along that. later i experienced the faculty wasn't good enough, and also i didn't had enough interest in Programmin languages. but i had to finish it. so i cleared all my exams and practicals till 2009 but with only passing grades as C's and D's-50-60%. Initally after that i searched for job for a while but all i was getting was Bpo jobs. SO, i switched in trying for government job instead. Since, then i've been trying, but couldn't succed in getting through any. So, in july 2010- i took admission to Italian language classes, im enjoying it, its truly a learning experience but still im into a lot of stress as regards my job. I belong to a very educated family, all my cousins and friends are well settled here or abroad. As im the only girl child of my parents my parents are highly supportive, which gives me a lot of guilt. I want you to please advice me on certain issues: 1) What shall i be doing next, I don't know where my life is heading to?, i've been extremely ambitious as regards my career,but due getting invovled with some wrong group of friends whi never cared about studies, i got misleaded and lost my direction and important years. I feel miserable and know that its my own fault, but i want to restart a fresh. 2) as im a girl i don't have a lot of time in my hand, i just have hardly maximum 2 years, before which i want to and have to settle down with a good job. 3) I have a lot of dreams for my parents, also i want to go and study abroad also after a few years, so please tell what should be my Plan of Action from here onwards. 4) I've seen and heard a lot of people get good salary packages after doing Italian language, but i also came to know that most of thejobs are in BPO's as i don't want to go for BPo's so pls throw some light on this also. 5) I researched a bit on internet and somebody also suggested me that Software Testing is a great field i can try to get into.- so, is it right that i can do some 3-5 months course in it, and will get a job in a Reputed Co.? and thereafter i can also get a chance of going abroad on projects?? Please help me with all my doubts, I want to and will prove it all one day- Im not a dumb. I want to make my parents proud, and my career is my priority now, so, please help me..

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    hi riddhi i'm going through same situation , so you are not all alone . problem with most “Indian” parents these days is they dont have any idea about todays world . they dont understand situations & try to tell us how good they were at our age . i went through same situations , got lesser marks than you . I went from hindi medium in UP board to english medium school in maharashtra that further reduced my marks & confidence . then changed to ART field & did my post graduation . tried my luck in different courses . after wasting much of my time , realised i should go after my passion rather than getting into rat race/ unsatisfactory jobs like IT software etc .now i’m tring many things & giving tutions in my spare time . but i'm happy . most people in india tend to think IT is highest paying field & everyone should enter it . they don’t know monotonous nature of this field takes its toll sooner or later . so you need have deep interest in IT to enter this field . to return to your question , decide what you want in life ? I mean what are you really interested in ? which subjects interests you ? things like that . then set you goals , create plan of action . research what you need to learn , what kind of skills you need to achive your dreams . then set a timeline for it . remember money is not everything . if you concentrate on money , you 'll end up being unhappy . choose a job which makes you happy . plzz don't feel guilty . many people are going through same situations & we try our best don’t worry you can achive your goals sooner or later all the best !! edit: its ok yaar ! i can understand what you must be going through ! coz i'm going through same things u can do it i have full faith in you . just give your best to whatever you do . start small in whatever intersts you .. ..if i had a magic wand i would have granted your wishes :).

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Rhidima, first you have to learn to love yourself.stop doing things to please others or to reach someones expectation that will only make you do things you don't want to do.stop doing things just to fit in or just to be liked by others...believe in yourself and in the things you can do and achieve.

Roxanne

It seems your education background is a problem for you. Also your ambitious and want good things in life and you want to help your parents and thinking not practically about life. First thing is you should think about yourself completely now. Like what work you can do and how your life will be. If in your future if you cannot be as rich as your cousins or friends what you should evolve to be is at-least not lead a stressed or depressed life. In the future you will be a Wife and Mother if you want and if so you should start getting those things right. It is like new chapter, let the old chapter like you education not affect the new chapter like marriage in you life. If your already doing a language course, you should be able to get a job with that, else you could try to be a teacher in commerce or Bcom field. Your career was and never will be the priority. Your life and you is the priority. If you can study or if study is not a stress for you, join any course that you can afford and will also enjoy everyday. Do not worry if at the end of it you will get a job, trust me, if your honest with this effort, you will find success. If its possible i feel the best thing in you life is a break from all this feelings you have, go with your educated family on a vacation and during the vacation if they feel educated enough and if so how you are having all this feelings and they have not helped you feel good! Right now for all of what you have written, i wish you a very happy marriage, that is if you want it in you life. But when married you sure need to be more relaxed and please don't try to prove to you husband that your not dumb or whatever you where thinking when you wrote that sentence.

navin

there is one thing that needs to be added under the take care of yourself. Avoid feeling guilty when you can not always be understanding. To remember that some time you are going to get angry at the illness not the person. then you are going to feel bad because you got angry or frustrated. alway remember that is is the illness not the person saying some of the things that hurt or ignoring you when you are in need of support. as a child with a parent witn major depression for 30+ years I had to learn that she was not rejecting me when she was so wrapped up in her own pain that she did not see my needs. To remeber that we are not perfect we are going to get frustrated angry and think if not actual say hateful things

Natalie

I think you should try professional course of fashion designing..its perfect for you...it can be ur professional job and also you can make your different personality in your family by doing this course!...wht say?,and otherwise you can start professional course of software engineering..,and u knw wht is the duration of this both of course?its jst 2year course!...

Rahul Vaghela

don't think so much but be cAreful about the upcoming five years. you should go for some it career development courses. if u get into small it company as soon possible and get experience and everything will come behind you. Get lot of contacts where ever u goes and get advice from your Old friends. Life is one time make it wonderful. All the best.

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