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Student and Teacher have kissed. What should they do?

  • The teacher is a professional man in his late 20s. He has wanted to be an educator for his entire life and loves his job and enjoys helping his students. One of his students is an attractive young woman that seems to have taken a liking for her teacher. The teacher is not impervious to her charms but thinks it would inappropriate it would be to pursue anything romantic. The student is seventeen years old and one of the teacher's better students. They talk frequently and exchange emails - the discussions are usually about literature (the subject the teacher teaches is English) but occasionally veer into the personal department. The teacher also occasionally meets with the student outside of class to help her work on an essay she is writing. They meet once or twice a week at a coffee shop. The student and teacher have not (yet) done anything of a sexual nature but they do have physical contact. This contact is mostly things like hugs, playful touching and hand holding. The teacher realizes that having this close of a relationship with a student is not perfect but enjoys spending time with the student and being of assistance. Almost all of the out of school contact is initiated by the student. The student flirts with the teacher frequently - the instructor tries his hardest not to flirt back and only smiles and looks away when receiving attention. The teacher is not sure how to proceed as earlier this week the student kissed him on the lips when they were leaving after working on her essay. The teacher told her they shouldn't at first but after a little bit returned her kisses. They kissed outside his car for several minutes before going their separate ways. They have seen one another in class since and been professional but there is a lot of romantic tension between the two. Their emails are becoming more and more personal and romantic in nature and the teacher is losing his resolve to refuse the advances. What should the teacher do in this situation. He cannot go to administration because he has already acted somewhat improperly. The student is not immature or troublesome and would not do anything to reveal the indiscretions. Is it wrong for the teacher to continue the relationship and/or escalate the relationship?

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    Well this "Teacher" is in hot water. With all of the media attention teachers have been given lately when it comes to inappropriate relationships with students you would think at some point these teacher's would realize this is a serious issue that will lead to criminal charges and unemployment. Anyway the relationship needs to stop now. It's already gone too far. The student can easily go to the Administration and blow this thing out of the water. For the teacher's sake I would stop the relationship COMPLETELY and pray the student doesn't say anything about it. It is not only wrong but unethical for teachers to behave as such. Parents don't send their kids to school to sleep with their teachers..

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this remindes me of that show pretty little liars

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Your first sentence is correct. Indeed, a professional Man -- NOT a professional educator! You do not have to give your principal a reason for your resignation, which you should do tomorrow. Then get down on your knees and pray the little kid doesn't tell everyone she knows, which she has probably done already anyway. Your next step is to move out of town before the law tracks you down. You have already commited enough crimes to warrant loss of teaching license, as well as legal penalties, including child endangerment, and could easily face civil suit. You will be classified a sex offender forever and your photo that you so nicely display will appear on the national sex registry with everything else about you. GO PENN STATE!

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