Why do many men dislike feminists?

Is it true feminists hate sons?

• see this Ii found on internet This is one of feminists story she says that she hate sons and she give them dolls to make them girlish women and she raise daughters to be boyish women These fears and many more fizzled through my increasingly exhausted brain throughout my pregnancy and practically boiled over when I discovered I was having a boy–a discovery I had dreaded. I wanted a daughter–a girl that would grow into a woman with whom I could fight the feminist good fight, a girl whom I could give the feminist upbringing I never had, a girl who I could let know from Day One was as strong, smart and capable as any penis-privileged human. Looking back, this dread of having a son embarrasses me. I see now that it is just as important to raise feminist sons as it is to raise feminist daughters. Further, as my children moved from babyhood to toddlerhood to childhood, I saw to my relief that they were not the “typical boy” and “typical girl” they had first seemed. My son revealed a feminine side, a true love of the color pink, an aptitude for tap dancing and a very strong nurturing personality. My daughter revealed she did not only love dolls, fashion and burying her head in books, but also math, wrestling and skateboards. I think I can take at least some credit (along with my partner) for our children’s gender-blending personalities. My insisting that my children use gender-inclusive language, arguing for Tinky Winky’s right to carry a purse if he wished or analyzing the injustices of Nicktoons boy-dominated cartoon lineup helped to turn out two socially aware, feminist kids. Do other feminist mothers treat their sons the way my mother treated me? Like crap compaired to my sisters. She made me wear dresses when I was very little, threw away the cool toys dad bought me, made me do most of the chores wile she spoiled my sisters, wouldn't help me with my homework because she thought education would be more important for my sisters. I wanted to move in with my father but she had full custody of us so I couldn't. Even from a young age I never conformed to her views of feminism and she couldn't stand me. We'd always fight and she'd kick me out of the house until the cops brought me home. My sisters graduated HS top of the class and became bankers or something (I don't care enough about them to remember) I graduated third from the bottom and still became a mechanic (my mom hated that I loved cars) Im 22 now and my father is helping me build a shop of my own. I wanted my mother to finally be proud of me for something but she now sees me as another male pig making it to the top with low education. My dislike has now become hate. Are you treating your boys this way also? Or am I all alone? Just asking. • Feminism is a hate movement, they are capable of telling boys to do work usually associated with women but they would never tell girls to fight for their country because feminism is about favouritism for women and nothing to do with equality. They only say they want equality when there are rights they want but they wont accept equal discrimination of things men suffer, because i do think its more than possible they are trying to destroy men and boys. They have everything tipped to favour women in sweden for instance yet they Still have meetings to preach hate against men and sing sexist songs and yet they expect men only to risk there lives if a war broke out. I don't know why swedish men would want to defend those sexist hypocrites,i certainly wouldn't. Most feminists do not dislike men that is a myth perpetuated by male groups to demonize feminism" - This is a lie that only the most ignorant truly believe. I can only presume if your willing to lie about this, you're also lying when you say you love your son. Especially since you blame the 'myth' on men. You do know your son will grow up to be a man, belonging to a gender you hate, responsible for spreading 'myths' about feminism (cough.... the truth). Even if you do love him, you don't love him enough to raise him with honesty do you!! He'll see through you one day providing he's marginally more intelligent than you. He'll work out himself that no feminist is deserving of a gentleman....that is if he does indeed grow up to be a gentleman. If he does you won't be his equal, because only a lady is a gentlemans equal. another story This is the kind of feminist teaching that I received every day, and created in me a deep mistrust in myself, in male authority, and a feeling of never being able to be good or lovable as a human being because of my maleness. This caused in me a reaction of proving my mother that at least I as her son was different than other men. This quickly turned into arrogance against other men that made me lonely and bare of friends for most of my life.

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  Margaret. Yes believe it, there are mothers exactly like this out there. They truly hate their own son.