Do I have the right understanding of women?

Worst boyfriend I ever ever had was Bipolar, he was really horrible to me and my credit. But he didnt represent the whole male population...not even close. Now I dont avoid men...just Bipolar ones ; ) I'm sorry sounds like you have had it rough, hug. Sounds to me like you should make some girl that are friends...get to know them on a personal none romantic level first.

You're really a horrible person. To base your view of an entire gender on two of its components is ridiculous. Let's get one thing straight, you lack compassion toward your mother because she is bipolar, not because she is a woman. Even that is terrible. She can't help that she is bipolar. Secondly, your girlfriend wouldn't have cheated on you if you treated her with respect and dignity, which I can probably assume you didn't. I think that the real problem here is you, not the women in your life. You're a chauvinist who needs social rehab. You have the wrong understanding of women. Period.

The whole situation with your mom going for 40 years with untreated bipolar is odd. I'm not sure how or why she was diagnosed but remained untreated. If we was frankly ill with bipolar depression, she's hardly representative of most ladies (most ladies don't have bipolar depression). Women are complicated and it's hard to figure them out. Sometimes you get lucky and find one that you have a chemistry with, sometimes you don't. It's really hard to trust ladies after their torment us, but ultimately having this fear of trusting another lady is gonna take a toll on you. Invariably, it'll take a lot of work to find a good lady but in the end hopefully you'll be successful. Your fear getting screwed over again is understandable, but if you give up then there's no chance of even finding a good match. If you're lucky enough to find a normal lady, don't screw up and lose her. I wish you well.

Your mom has a mental disorder so she is a special case. Now your B**ch of an ex she three kids right now so don't worry about her. But most women are the nicest most caring people you will ever meet who will be there for you no matter what happens you in your life trust me on this

Way off base to judge women by 1 who is bipolar and 1 who was unfaithful. Think about it is that really fair?

Unfortunately, the women you will be attracted to will probably be the ones who are like this. Can you observe some women from day to day who are not your mother? Some of us are very steady. You might find us boring. But rather than being doomed to live on a roller coaster, see if you can find some examples of women who are steady as opposed to women who are not.

are you turning gay?

Deep in your heart you know this is not true. That all women are fickle. You already know that your mother had a reason for her behavior. When a person is raised that way, they may end up falling for a person who is much the same or has other issues. So now you have two women in your life who have treated you badly. Now you want to think that all women are this way. A better plan is to work on your own self and your perception of things and working to undo the damage your mom has caused. Now that you are grown, you can decide for yourself how to perceive things. You just might need some counseling or something to get over this thinking. Then, we cannot guarantee that any person will be the same from day to day. We all have our moods. Just don't go reading more into it than that. Accept her for being human and go on. Good luck.

Have you ever considered being a monk?