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How To Flirt With Women?

Where are appropriate places to flirt with women?

  • Some people say that it is not ok to flirt or ask a woman out when she is at work? From women's point of view, what do you all like and when? How do you let a guy know that you like him that you have only seen for the first time? Let us guys into your world of wonders!

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    I don't mind being flirted with anywhere, any time. A good place to catch us is when we're 1.) in the midst of a small group of friends, 2.) in a "fun" place (like the movies, an arcade, or a restaurant or club). Don't wait until the rest of the group disperses, though. Approach the girl you're interested in while she's talking with her friends (use common sense, obviously -- if they look like someone just died, maybe someone did, and you miiiight not want to saunter on over to drop the "lost my phone number" line). Look for a break in the conversation, and come over to crack a joke. Make it about the group. Talk to everyone. Be charming and fun. When you feel that everyone has a pretty good impression of you, take your leave to go do something else for a while. THAT'S when you wait for the group to disperse a little bit. That's when you hone in on the girl that you're interested in and take the opportunity to talk to her a little more. It's all about that first impression. She'll feel more at ease if her social circle thinks you're cool, so don't aggressively pursue her and ignore everyone that she's with. I think this is something that a lot of guys forget about. That little break after the initial meet-up is also crucial, because you don't want to make them feel weird, or like you're trying to butt in too much.

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you are such a douche

succubus

any where and any time ;) Still, you better know that there's big different flirting and ask them out on date specially at your work. flirting is that, date has future , result, follow up, something. You want to be careful when you make your move at your work!

summerhead

It depends on the woman. Some woman will let a guy know that she likes him, others will want to let the guy make the first move. I say just break the ice and get it over with and let the person know that your interested in getting to know them better. Just put it out there so you can throw the ball in their court and you can find out if the feeling is mutual.

newyorkafterdarkness

I agree with steve, do not bother the wemon at work you would be taking a huge risk. I also agree about not bothering the wemon at the gym as well cause they are working on laws for that environment as well in the case of sexual harassment. to me i believe it is best to just get to know a Lady before you ask her out, then flirt with her after you are dating her you'll find that she will except it better. Places to meet wemon , well try the church you go to or other places that you meet them at like the store or in the neighborhood. the trick is to meet them as a friendly guy not as a guy out to get a date, they see that as a guy who just wants to get laid.

just another man

how rude! succabus must really suck busses....... BTW im a guy, im curious as to the other answers you get.

MERLIN

The situation may be key to this. At work mild flirting is fine, but anything beyond that is a huge risk for the lady. If she is smart, she will not exceed mild flirting at work unless she really feels she knows him well. Call her up outside of work and see how she feels about it. She will at least appreciate the discretion. Flirting in a more casual setting will be much easier for both, but again, if she feels she knows him well enough...she will be more relaxed and natural. Get to know a lady and allow her to know you! It really is the only way to gain trust and respect. From there, it is far easier to know what to do next.

Rebel Yell

NOT AT WORK AND NOT AT THE GYM! After work, and someplace other than the gym.

mishmallow8

as a woman, i say it's ok to flirt wherever you are! just as long as you're not my boss. flirting is fun. it's great to let a girl know you're interested. a smile sometimes is just enough to let him know i'm interested too

breeze

Hmm, I feel it's fine to be friendly at work and drop a hint or two. Ahhh, personally if I'd have liked someone, I would sneak glances at him and then even while chatting, I would become a bit nervous and not be game enough to look him in the eye(incase the guy can tell you like him, what if he sees it in your eyes and then he rejects you?)

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