How can I tell if the girl is straight or gay?

How comes you can usually tell when a guy is gay but not when a girl is?

• I don't know how, but I know so many lesbians, so many people I grew up with never expecting them to be a lesbian, have come out to be one, 3 of my good friends, my aunt, my brothers best female friend, two of the women I worked with, 3 of my moms best friends ect Not one of them is butch,all very feminine and pretty, actually the prettiest girls I know are lesbians! I've only ever seen butch ones on TV, at first when I was young and I met a lesbian I used to always think "but you're not butch how can you be a lesbian!" but they aren't always butch, I'm 100% lesbian and very feminine, more feminine than most girls, I've dated 3 girls, all more feminine than me, all the girls that ask me on dates are feminine! I was watching youtube and went to a few girls videos and two of them I never expected to be lesbians because they were so feminine came out to be lesbians! How comes so many gay men are camp, I know two gay men, both camp as I don't even know what word is camp enough to describe them (camp is slang for feminine by the way) why is it so easily to tell when a girl is gay compare to a guy, I've been to a few lesbian strip clubs and the girls were SO feminine, but I've been to gay male bars for fun and they all talked girly and wore tight shirts

• Answer:

  I think because it's more acceptable for women to have masculine traits than it is for men to have effeminate traits.